Any Black PUAs out there??

[Kit]

Don't try to ingratiate yourself to other races by showing them how cool you are with their culture. At the best, it's embarrassing. At the worst, it's insulting.

Just be you. Always.

Although I appreciate you offering feedback I really want a black person's point of view. I totally disagree with you about showing respect for another culture. If you didn't get enough grasp of my personality by spending some time with me to know I don't do things to try to be cool then I wasted my time with you.

[Muk]

well...90% of the time it won't go any further than the handshake, then slide to the fingers

[Westfall]

well...90% of the time it won't go any further than the handshake, then slide to the fingers

Race, in my opinion is merely a social construct. There are very few genetic varriations among humans--we are the same. This is different than most species which have a wide degree of genetic varriation. Many scientist believe this is because almost all humans died out 100,000 years ago...

Of course we can set ourselves apart, but only by what we do & what we achieve.

Don't let race be an issue for you, and when someone brings it up, have some good responses ready for it.

WF

[Guest]

Fuck. How come there are posts in this thread on both forums...is the other forum shutting down?

Anyway I agree, don't let it phase you. I walk past alot of people who (I think) either say "what's up" to me because I'm black (and I do not dress like a thug). Not only that, I get tired of terms like ghetto being applied to anything that is run down or not status quo, and bullshit terms like afro-engineering.

If your game is good people will overlook your race. This thread is asking the question, how come different groups of people judge me on my appearance? The answer to this question is...because I am not conveying enough personality.

In other words...if you knew a woman was a complete bitch, to the point that you had experienced and could not tolerate her attitude, would you want to talk to her, even if she was hot? (assuming you did not want anything else from her)

The answer for most people is no.

[Guest]

The other forum isn't obsolete but it might as well be. Everybody worth a damn came over here. Welcome.

[Guest]

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Fuck. How come there are posts in this thread on both forums...is the other forum shutting down? [/quote1209793676]

No the other forum is niether shutting down nor is it obsolete.
Actually this is the only thread on this site that I'm seriously interested in.


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Anyway I agree, don't let it phase you. I walk past alot of people who (I think) either say "what's up" to me because I'm black (and I do not dress like a thug). Not only that, I get tired of terms like ghetto being applied to anything that is run down or not status quo, and bullshit terms like afro-engineering.

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Being that ghetto is a Jewish term orriginally I wouldn't worry about this too much. It's part of the evolution of language. Who knows what it will mean in another fifty years.

Also I say "whats up" to just about everyone, not just to black people. I grew up saying it, as did most of the people I know.


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If your game is good people will overlook your race. This thread is asking the question, how come different groups of people judge me on my appearance? The answer to this question is...because I am not conveying enough personality.

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Yes in general but... there are also poeple with whom it will not matter how much personality you convey. Some people really are dead set against the idea of dating outside their race.

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In other words...if you knew a woman was a complete bitch, to the point that you had experienced and could not tolerate her attitude, would you want to talk to her, even if she was hot? (assuming you did not want anything else from her)

The answer for most people is no.
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I totally agree with this statement...

[Guest]

My friend Charles is black but he is a natural.Yes he has encountered some of that stuff but very rarely and when a chick did say something about race he would just end the interaction immediately and then he would move on with his life.

On the contrary I do run into white girls that tell me that they date only black or hispanic men. I do exact same thing-just end the interaction and open the next set.

[Guest]

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I know...it's easy to say "don't let it bother you, and it won't be a problem" but this may not be the case...I feel like I have my ethnicity working to my disadvantage...from the past month, I'm 5 - 0 (5 black number closes compared to 0 number closes with "other than black") maybe I'm subconsciously showing my insecurity (I can't see it) but I dunno... it's like I have to work twice as hard as a white guy to build attraction. I have to 1st prove that I'm not going to steal their shit, and the 2: prove that I'm not some hip hopping gangster. and only then could I start building attraction. and then there are the girls who just aren't attracted to black guys. (not racist, but just not physically attracted) (and then there are the racists...) Are there any Black PUAs out there? how do I deal with this??
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Ok.. but, reverse it. It's just as difficult for us white guys to go after other ethnicities. TRUST ME.

I think the problem is your dealing with their personal belief and image. SOmething that's built up really high because of their community, friends, family, PARENTS. Familiarity breeds comfort.. and women from other ethnicities know very little other than their own. We all know stereotypes are BS... and when we talk to women of different ethnicities we have a limited amount of time to build comfort. You have to find other hooks... because, it's a tall wall for them to climb.. and they may even be attracted to you.. but, just not persuaded or willing to go there.

I can't even imagine the way asian women would respond to me as a white guy. Talk about tough cookies.. I mean fortune cookies to crack. But, hey... I love beautiful women!! No matter what their background. Saw my beyonce leaving the stars game the other day... wish I could get redo!

[Guest]

In the UK almost all of my wings are black.

They get laid like reckstars...but it may be a UK thing.

DO you have a photo? I'm just wondering about the entire "prove your not going to steal their stuff thing"

If you can get in under the radar. you should easily be able to pull off a lay.

AFC ADam

[Guest]

I don't know if Jesus was into pick-up, but he was mos def black.


lol