i'm pretty much done looking for women I "like"

[grimm1111]

When I started the year I kicked so much ass. I was a big pimp.

Then even though I got an insane amount of numbers I had dry spell of no new lays for over a month. I mean nothing. Then if anyone saw me at Republic Friday I pulled a pretty smoking hot blonde. I don't even like blondes so for me to say she was pretty hot...well you know.

So just realize this isn't some magic system that is going to get you any woman in the world. It is something that is going to help you get there. You need to incorporate this stuff into your personality.

DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. Add to who you are. Make your game better because you know some stuff.

I know you feel like shit right now. Take a week off. Read some stuff then hit it next weekend. Go out and have a good time. Don't think you need to do this or that. Just treat it like you are going out and hanging with your boys. If something arises so be it. Don't think you need to go out and open 12 sets. Don't think you need to go out and even open one set. Just go out. Enjoy yourself. Fuck around with some people. Just be cocky/funny with ZERO intention. Hell don't even escalate anything. Just be chill and relaxed. Observe others around you. Observe your friends run sets. Just have a good time.

Agree. Awesome man, did she look kind of like Victoria Beckham as someone said? Then I know who you're talking about...nice pull dude.


Cheese, dude I've met you and you're a cool guy. You have a lot of things going for you that girls are going to fucking love, you just need to put in the fucking work man and quit expecting some fucking magic pill.

you're in to bodybuilding, right? well you don't go from a scrawny dweeb to having big muscles in one day, you have to show up every day and push through the pain to get to the gain. well game is the same way, you just gotta cowboy up and get your ass back on the horse.

and it's probably the same with bodybuilding that you're never going to get good unless you can find a way to motivate yourself and that has to come from enjoying what you do.

good looking out, man. hope to see you out again soon.

[Lion]

Agree. Awesome man, did she look kind of like Victoria Beckham as someone said? Then I know who you're talking about...nice pull dude.

I don't remember either of them looking like Victoria Beckham. Whoever said that, was she wearing white shorts or no?

[isosceles cheese]

Okay dude, did you forget when you and I blew out the guys that were buying the freaking hot girls shots? Would you have rather been us or them going home that night? I never said a word to the blonde you were talking to and before we walked off she said, "you guys are fun." This was the same blonde that let the guys that bought the shots stand there like dweebs ignoring them until they finally walked off. So she was a total bitch to them right? Was she a bitch to us? No. What was the difference? They walked behind them to the bar and bought shots. We fucking walked up to them like they were nothing special and we were the shit.

That's pretty much my only positive experience in the last 2 months.

When I started the year I kicked so much ass. I was a big pimp.

Then even though I got an insane amount of numbers I had dry spell of no new lays for over a month. I mean nothing. Then if anyone saw me at Republic Friday I pulled a pretty smoking hot blonde. I don't even like blondes so for me to say she was pretty hot...well you know.

So just realize this isn't some magic system that is going to get you any woman in the world. It is something that is going to help you get there. You need to incorporate this stuff into your personality.

DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. Add to who you are. Make your game better because you know some stuff.

I know you feel like shit right now. Take a week off. Read some stuff then hit it next weekend. Go out and have a good time. Don't think you need to do this or that. Just treat it like you are going out and hanging with your boys. If something arises so be it. Don't think you need to go out and open 12 sets. Don't think you need to go out and even open one set. Just go out. Enjoy yourself. Fuck around with some people. Just be cocky/funny with ZERO intention. Hell don't even escalate anything. Just be chill and relaxed. Observe others around you. Observe your friends run sets. Just have a good time.

Agree. Awesome man, did she look kind of like Victoria Beckham as someone said? Then I know who you're talking about...nice pull dude.


Cheese, dude I've met you and you're a cool guy. You have a lot of things going for you that girls are going to fucking love, you just need to put in the fucking work man and quit expecting some fucking magic pill.

you're in to bodybuilding, right? well you don't go from a scrawny dweeb to having big muscles in one day, you have to show up every day and push through the pain to get to the gain. well game is the same way, you just gotta cowboy up and get your ass back on the horse.

and it's probably the same with bodybuilding that you're never going to get good unless you can find a way to motivate yourself and that has to come from enjoying what you do.

good looking out, man. hope to see you out again soon.

yeah, I know what you mean, its just really fucking with my head right now. Like on saturday night. I went to a party full of models and was on fire, then the next place I go to I managed to get "we came here to talk to your friend, not you."

Its the same way with weightlifting. I do it because I have to, like a machine (I'm liquid metal), but I've had almost no success or any positive experiences from it. I'm still grossly under-weight and have a long ass way to go. I've had some serious thoughts about giving it up completely over the last few days. I know what I want to look like, and what kinds of #'s I want to pull, but I'm not really caring anymore.

anyway I'm rambling like a bitch now.

[grimm1111]

yeah, I know what you mean, its just really fucking with my head right now. Like on saturday night. I went to a party full of models and was on fire, then the next place I go to I managed to get "we came here to talk to your friend, not you."

Its the same way with weightlifting. I do it because I have to, like a machine (I'm liquid metal), but I've had almost no success or any positive experiences from it. I'm still grossly under-weight and have a long ass way to go. I've had some serious thoughts about giving it up completely over the last few days. I know what I want to look like, and what kinds of #'s I want to pull, but I'm not really caring anymore.

anyone I'm rambling like a bitch now.

If you're getting invited to parties full of models then I wouldn't really post it on this board, that's just me. You'll have guys swarming around you like flies trying to get in on it. It's like flashing a wallet full of 100-dollar bills. Everyone here's a good guy, but I'm just saying.

I don't know what kind of social circles you run in dude, but my impression is that you're pretty hooked up here in dallas. if i were you, i'd use that to your advantage. if you show up in addison for example with a model on your arm, even if she's just your buddy that you met at a party, sets are going to fly open for you.

anyway, i'm not going in to specifics or i could write a fucking book here, the point is just to emphasize that you have a lot to work with obviously.

[isosceles cheese]

yeah, I know what you mean, its just really fucking with my head right now. Like on saturday night. I went to a party full of models and was on fire, then the next place I go to I managed to get "we came here to talk to your friend, not you."

Its the same way with weightlifting. I do it because I have to, like a machine (I'm liquid metal), but I've had almost no success or any positive experiences from it. I'm still grossly under-weight and have a long ass way to go. I've had some serious thoughts about giving it up completely over the last few days. I know what I want to look like, and what kinds of #'s I want to pull, but I'm not really caring anymore.

anyone I'm rambling like a bitch now.

If you're getting invited to parties full of models then I wouldn't really post it on this board, that's just me. You'll have guys swarming around you like flies trying to get in on it. It's like flashing a wallet full of 100-dollar bills. Everyone here's a good guy, but I'm just saying.

I don't know what kind of social circles you run in dude, but my impression is that you're pretty hooked up here in dallas. if i were you, i'd use that to your advantage. if you show up in addison for example with a model on your arm, even if she's just your buddy that you met at a party, sets are going to fly open for you.

anyway, i'm not going in to specifics or i could write a fucking book here, the point is just to emphasize that you have a lot to work with obviously.

The only reason I went was because my family has been in the fashion business for a long time, I'm basically just vapors. Hopefully some shots of me make it into D magazine this month...lol. I told Lion to go, but never saw him. It was like a who's who of dallas models...so I felt like a real loser and just acted like I was friendly with all the women and didn't escelate.

We ended up bouncing in a Quattroporte to some "Ivy" club where they had a tiger in a shadowdancer thingy where chicks just clowned on me...lol The highlight of my night was when 3 chicks came up and I just said hi and one quickly said, "we're waiting to talk to your friend, ok?" This is the kind of fucked up shit that floors me, and makes me want to kill.

I'm going to DC next week, the Little Rock, then Miami for a while so I'll have some time where I can just lock up in my hotel room and think about this shit.

[Bull Run]

I'm going to DC next week, the Little Rock, then Miami for a while so I'll have some time where I can just lock up in my hotel room and think about this shit.

I think you should do the opposite. I used to travel A LOT for work and one of my favorite past-times was actually going out to bars in the cities I was visiting. By doing so it helped me to realize that I could be whomever I wanted to be. I mean shit, no one in that city even knew me. I didn't lie about anything, I just had a different frame of mind. I walked into whatever bar thinking to myself that I'm free from all of the mental chains that keep me prisoner at home. I was literally free and got out of my own head, something that I think you're have a real problem doing.

I was immensely more successful pulling chicks while I was out of town than I was at home, and this was way before my PUA days. I've found that the frame I used to have while I was out of town has become my permanent frame today. However, having said that when I'm in a dry spell or feeling frustrated because I'm loosing touch with my frame I buy a cheap ticket to a major city and spend the weekend there sarging on my own. You learn so much about yourself by doing so. Primarily I think you learn that no one knows you. Every new person you meet is an opportunity for you to be that man that you've always wanted to be. They don't know you as the cheese you used to be, show them the cheese you want to be...the cheese you're striving to become.

Sitting in your hotel room is going to nothing but make you over-analyze your plight, situation, game, etc. It's not going to be of any help, it's just going to make you feel worse. Go do something! That's the best thing for you right now.

[parametric_dc]

Cheese,

I only met you for about 10 minutes last Friday - but during that time, you communicated to me that:

- Denton sucks
- You were in a bad mood
- You had a horrible week
- You're giving up for the night and going home (at 10pm??)

Everything was negative. On here, you seem to be a pretty self-defeating guy. I'm not pointing it out to be a prick, just sharing my observations since that's what we're here to do.

Aside from the fact that's a shitty attitude to have when dealing with women, it's just a shitty attitude to have in life. Negativity will pollute you, dude.

Again, I don't really know you, but I have a hunch that maybe you need to shelve the PUA thing for a minute and work on some personal things...

[TopDog]

I'm going to DC next week, the Little Rock, then Miami for a while so I'll have some time where I can just lock up in my hotel room and think about this shit.

I think you should do the opposite. I used to travel A LOT for work and one of my favorite past-times was actually going out to bars in the cities I was visiting. By doing so it helped me to realize that I could be whomever I wanted to be. I mean shit, no one in that city even knew me. I didn't lie about anything, I just had a different frame of mind. I walked into whatever bar thinking to myself that I'm free from all of the mental chains that keep me prisoner at home. I was literally free and got out of my own head, something that I think you're have a real problem doing.

I was immensely more successful pulling chicks while I was out of town than I was at home, and this was way before my PUA days. I've found that the frame I used to have while I was out of town has become my permanent frame today. However, having said that when I'm in a dry spell or feeling frustrated because I'm loosing touch with my frame I buy a cheap ticket to a major city and spend the weekend there sarging on my own. You learn so much about yourself by doing so. Primarily I think you learn that no one knows you. Every new person you meet is an opportunity for you to be that man that you've always wanted to be. They don't know you as the cheese you used to be, show them the cheese you want to be...the cheese you're striving to become.

Sitting in your hotel room is going to nothing but make you over-analyze your plight, situation, game, etc. It's not going to be of any help, it's just going to make you feel worse. Go do something! That's the best thing for you right now.

BR's post here is money.

having solo sarged 'all' over the world/country myself, there's not much more fun that strapping a set on(if need be.. ) , figuring out how the hell to navigate a city ( in a foreign language if need be), finding a random bar/club, fighting language barriers, and running game. THAT is what memories are made of dude. NOT hole-ing up in a hotel room! There's nothing much more depressing that sitting in a hotel room on travel....and that my friend, is not something it sounds like you need more of!!

[isosceles cheese]

Again, I don't really know you, but I have a hunch that maybe you need to shelve the PUA thing for a minute and work on some personal things...

Yeah, I can't really ignore it anymore. I think its time I accepted reality and made realistic goals, accepted reality, and went back to turning "off" the desire to experience success with women.

[playercool]

Player, I saw the blonde and yes she was hot. When you say you pulled her, what does that mean exactly?

When I say pulled I mean she came over and got naked.

She was the one in the silver dress? Not sure if she looked like bekham...have no idea who you are talking about unlesss I was so drunk that she did...but I don't think so.