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[Elation]

no I didn't describe it wrong.

I used to go there allot, like every other weekend or more for about a year.

I know most of the DJ's, I see the owner out all the time. I know the people in charge of the Fire spinning, I used to date the girl that first brought it to the club and now spins at Eden.

I'm friends with both the club managers, I get in for free more than not...

But I quite going because what I used to consider hot girls I realized are small, insignificant high school seniors (or sometimes even younger) and while they may look good for their age, range about a 6-7 in difficulty level as a truly confident, stuck-up 8.5-9 model-type that you might find promoting clubs. Compared to any 24-26 year old hottie who gets attention from most guys, who's dated 25-30 well off men who were all a couple years older than her, the little silly little afterlife druggie just doesn't come off attractive.

I have pulled two, different ONS's with Bisexual strippers from there but still, comparatively those girls didn't stack up to real hotshot girls.

And more than that, unless you're rolling as well, sitting there competing for an 18yr old 7.5's attention when she's being bombarded by dumb druggie moron guys and running off to find the next, most interesting glow-stick is annoying as fuck!

But I still go there every once in awhile if I get out of a bar at 2 or so, just to pump up my confidence. It's soo easy to talk to people there because even the "coolest" guys have tiny little frame and are easy as hell to AMOG. Seriously, you can pretty much walk up to any group and be the social center of attention without any effort.

And AF, dude you shouldn't be trying to "get in" with any guys there because one, there is NOBODY cool there and two, you should be the leader, not be lead by some guys who isn't worth half of your value.

[Danger]

wow

[flash07]

rockstar i dont wanna sound like a broken record on this one but you sound brutal as hell man. You cant go to a party or bar or wherever looking for a one night stand. If you go into any given situation your mental state is broadcasted to all the girls there. If you go in looking for a piece of meat to sleep with they will know. go into it with a clear mind run some game and just have fun with it. If you get laid great if not im sure you can atleast start widening your social network at your school.

[Scoundrel]

Okay rockstar, you asked where to find one nighters. The answer to your question is EVERYWHERE. If you go out and ask 50 women about a one night stand you’ll have about five agree to it.

[Westfall]

But I quite going because what I used to consider hot girls I realized are small, insignificant high school seniors (or sometimes even younger)

Afterlife, PM me the address. Let's hit this place up sometime.

Rockstar, I don't make moral judgements about anyone. There is nothing more annoying than some condesending jackass trying to impose his or her subjective view of morality on you. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think you are being judged here.

That said, you do come off as extemely needy. This is a quality that women will be able to pick up on with their intuition, and will insure you do not get the "ONE NIGHT FUCK SESSIONS" you're seeking.

If you want one-night stands, here is my advice.

1) Be sexual, but not needy. Try to communicate to the girls that you are a sexual being, but don't direct it at them.

Right: You have a cute ass, I would totally fucked you...if you were taller.

Wrong: I want to have fuck you

2) Find something about her other than her body that you like about her. Make her feel you dont find her all that attractive physically, but personallity wise, she is appealing.

Ex: I don't really like blondes that much but I think it's cool you are so passionate about art. I've dated 2 artists and they were much more passionate than the traditional "hot girls". Artistic girls are sexy.

3) Be upfront and honest (to a point) with the girl. If she feels you are trying to trick her to get her into bed, your fucked. And by fucked, I mean not fucked.

Ex: Look, I really like you, but I want you to know I don't do relationships....Im the type of guy that you could have a really fun night with, but that's all it would be. I just want to let you know this up front, so you don't get hurt.

Hell if you say that and she's attracted, you'll probably get laid.

Best of luck.

Westfall

[phoenix_rising]

I'm surprised this thread is still going.

-phoenix

[Atlas]

The first thing about being a PUA is that YOU CANNOT CARE. Sex is great but you seem to be trying way to hard. You have to practice active disinterest. All girls want what they can't have. If you let them know you exist, mess with their emotions using some PUA tactics, and prove that your not like every other skeezball guy there at the frat party, because usually 90% of the guys there will be, she'll want you. If you seem like you don't even care if you get her, she'll want you more, because she'll be used to every guy using the same old shit on her.

The definition of insanity is trying the same thing and expecting a different result. Now think about that. If you aren't changing your game and expecting results, than how to you expect to succeed. Try not caring. Read some of these forums, learn the tricks, and just calm down. Go out to have fun, and don't make your main goal getting chicks. If you don't, you'll get nervous because you're worried about messing up the getting laid goal, and you'll seem like some sexed crazed maniac. Most girls, although they like sex, won't be turned on by a guy they know just wants them in bed.

Instead of trying to get them in bed, use some of the tactics here to reverse the table. Make yourself seem so much better than the other guys at frat parties that SHE'LL be trying to get YOU into bed.

One of the other posts says to get a hooker. That could be what you need. It seems like you need to get sex out of your system so that your not attacking girls or anything when they say no. You have to know the difference between no (like turn me on more first) and NO! (don't exploit me). If you're a member of this site your in the right place, just read some of the classic reports by deangelo, mystery, style, etc. ONS's are fun but the chase is way more fun. Knowing you had to use your skill to get a girl is more fun, and chances are, you'll get a better quality girl that isn't loose as a goose.

[MagicBalls]

Avoid truck stops.

[Real Ace]

Being cool is not something you can do by acting a certain way. Its gona come off as fake and wierd. Being cool is having the talent to build comfort and rapport with another person. They will like you and they gona think of you as a cool guy.

You need to work on your inner game. If your motivation of being a PUA is only to pick up woman by lieing to them and kicking them out after using them is pretty sleezy.

Respect yourself and others, then half of your problems will be gone. I think you are trying to be a laides man so people in your past can see you as a pimp or player. So they can respect you. It doesnt work like that buddd..

I can guarentee you most guys who are successful with woman, naturals or puas respect other human beings.

This game is more about self improvement that you think. So learn how to swim first before you jump into the ocean.

Peace