female virtue vs male ego

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Alcyoneus

This has been a fun discussion but I think it's time to call time at the bar. I will end on this note.

In my opinion our society has been and continutes to rapidly move away from the point from where women's sexuality can still be controlled by institutions (men). I personally do not fear a woman as my absolute equal and in fact I welcome the day this becomes the widely accepted belief. We continue to edge ever closer to this reality with each passing day.

In my experience women are on the whole much cooler than most men anyway so it should be pretty fun. I can almost guaranteed find a cool woman to hang out with on any given Friday night in any random city. More than likely quite a few. They'd hook me up in all the good ways like only women can do and I love them for that. I'd be lucky to find a real male friend once a year. I guess that makes me value male friends more but that's a separate issue.

I'm not down on guys but it does seem really unfair that women can't be sexually free like a man. This is the last bastion of feminism and they are knocking on the door lads. ;) LOL

NB. I thought of a better phrase for "Alpha" .. Guys with big dicks.

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Female virtue vs. male ego.

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Nice post thanks! I agree with most of it. You had some good points and made me think ;))

Particularly liked this part:

"I would contend that virtually all the things in our society that are points of friction are due to incongruity between the laws of nature and the rules of our society."

An example of this might be the suppression of female libido. Nature cannot be forced to man's will. E.g. climate change.

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So I got further in the book towards the end and found this interesting point of view from the author. I agree. Please direct insults/comments to her.

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[b][i]Yes, but men want to live out their fantasies, whereas women
are satisfied with just keeping their fantasies as fantasies.[/i][/b]

Some women do fulfill their fantasies of being with two or
more men at a time.

[i][b]Yeah, but those women are usually sluts.[/b][/i]

I really do pray you don’t die an idiot.

[i][b]Why did you say that?[/b][/i]

You just said that women don’t want to live out their fantasies.
Yet, when I mentioned that some women do, you responded that
those women are sluts. Don’t you see? Some women never execute
their fantasies because of what people will think. Many won’t
admit to having fantasies for the same reason. I’ll take it a step
further. Many women are unable to have sexual fantasies because
of the shame involved in doing so.
Our relationship problems will never be resolved until we see
an end to the sexual double standard. Whether males are ready
for it or not, that time is almost here. I mentioned to you once that
if females everywhere stood up and said, “Guess what, we all do,”
the sex game would be over. Well, that’s what’s happening. Girls
and women are engaging in a lot more sex and with a lot more
partners than they did in the past.
The sexual double standard can only exist if females allow it.
Males will never decide that it’s unfair. It will end when females
110 Women’s Infidelity
turn a deaf ear to any and all attempts at sexual shame. One of the
things that angered me when I watched the Dr. Phil show on teens
and sex was Dr. Phil’s statement: “And that’s what we’re talking
about, how to prevent your daughter from having oral sex that first
time, how to get her to understand that if you choose the action,
you choose the consequences.”
If shame is a consequence, its one that females control. As I
have heard Dr. Phil say on more than one occasion, “You teach
people how to treat you.” And as long as women allow shame to
manipulate their sexual behavior, society will continue to use
shame to control their sexuality. Before long, girls and women
alike will no longer feel they have to deny, explain or defend their
sexual behavior.

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Wow one sentence has turned into a debate of this length.

You guys are well spoken.

I find it interesting that through all this barrage of words not one person has said: Sex is always the girls choice.

That very single statement is the reason girls are dictated as sluts if they sleep around since it is alway their choice.

Woman walks into a bar. She is decent looking we will call her a SIX. She yells who wants to fuck me tonight? How many guys raise their hand? See my point.

Virginity is revered and/or a low count. Don't meet your next LTR at a bar if this is what you want. Some of the girls I have met their numbers would astound you. And if a high count bothers you I highly recommend you don't ask your next LTR how many guys she has slept with. You might throw up if she is honest.

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Wow one sentence has turned into a debate of this length.

You guys are well spoken.

I find it interesting that through all this barrage of words not one person has said: Sex is always the girls choice.

That very single statement is the reason girls are dictated as sluts if they sleep around since it is alway their choice.

Woman walks into a bar. She is decent looking we will call her a SIX. She yells who wants to fuck me tonight? How many guys raise their hand? See my point.

Virginity is revered and/or a low count. Don't meet your next LTR at a bar if this is what you want. Some of the girls I have met their numbers would astound you. And if a high count bothers you I highly recommend you don't ask your next LTR how many guys she has slept with. You might throw up if she is honest.




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i dont ask a girl how many men shes been with because regardless of her answer, i wont believe it. i dont think a woman is EVER HONEST about how many men shes slept with (unless shes a "virgin"). the reason i say this is because they dont want to come off as a slut..

...thats just my $.02

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[quote1234233562=playercool]
Wow one sentence has turned into a debate of this length.

You guys are well spoken.

I find it interesting that through all this barrage of words not one person has said: Sex is always the girls choice.

That very single statement is the reason girls are dictated as sluts if they sleep around since it is alway their choice.

Woman walks into a bar. She is decent looking we will call her a SIX. She yells who wants to fuck me tonight? How many guys raise their hand? See my point.

Virginity is revered and/or a low count. Don't meet your next LTR at a bar if this is what you want. Some of the girls I have met their numbers would astound you. And if a high count bothers you I highly recommend you don't ask your next LTR how many guys she has slept with. You might throw up if she is honest.




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i dont ask a girl how many men shes been with because regardless of her answer, i wont believe it. i dont think a woman is EVER HONEST about how many men shes slept with (unless shes a "virgin"). the reason i say this is because they dont want to come off as a slut..

...thats just my $.02

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Prodigy, I agree 100%.

In the grand scheme of things, it really doesn't (or shouldn't matter). If the two of you enjoy each others company, then each others number isn't a relative dynamic. People have a tendency create drama and friction where it doesn't exist just to create some excitement....especially when the participants of the LTR are bored with each other.