BR laid out some excellent advice.
Only thing I could add is since you are at the HOB, hang out on the lower level in front of the stage so you can dance with her. It will be easy to escalate kino this way. Dancing is like foreplay for women.
At some point during the concert, send this hooker up to the bar to buy you a drink........because Uncle Howie said so! ;-)
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by Guest » Wed May 13, 2009 1:04 pm
I concur, BR's statements are sound, venue changing is one of my favorite things to do with girls I get a number from at clubs, instead of remeeting up to dance or whatever line I use, I say I'm a bit busy but would like to meet up for say tea at barnes and noble or starbucks. I believe it is a Deangelo thing, but it does work well. If she is interested she will allow the venue change.
The up and down glance to lips is a kiss in my book, but my breath is always peachy.
The up and down glance to lips is a kiss in my book, but my breath is always peachy.
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by Guest » Wed May 13, 2009 1:05 pm
well i HATE dancing so good thing its the band Live and really chill music...but yea i am prepared to expect an uglier version of herself than her photos...im gunna definitely start the kino early and hopefully i can get some drinks in us so it will be more relaxing...What are some great day2 spots other than bouncing to other bars?
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by Guest » Wed May 13, 2009 2:41 pm
[quote1242242082=Gunner22]well i HATE dancing so good thing its the band Live and really chill music...but yea i am prepared to expect an uglier version of herself than her photos...im gunna definitely start the kino early and hopefully i can get some drinks in us so it will be more relaxing...What are some great day2 spots other than bouncing to other bars?[/quote1242242082]
Learn to at least be an average dancer. Being an average dancer and being willing to dance will get you so far.
As for the FIRST day2, I've found that there is no better first day2 than bouncing to bars. Period. Then again, I like girls that like to party so I'm a little biased here.
1) The investment is low, a drink can last 30 minutes or all night, so it's not a big deal.
2) They're convenient. Bars are everywhere and there open everyday. This means that you can have a first day2 any day of the week which is crucial if you're juggling chicks. I've found, for some reason, that I have the most success with first day2s on Wednesday and Thursday nights, and Sunday afternoon. Actually mid-week drinks are great for filtering out the quality women. High value women are almost always busy on Friday and Saturdays. I mean, who wants to go out with a chick that doesn't have plans for 'date' night? This works in reverse as well.
3) They're casual. Again, this goes back to investment. Meeting someone at a bar for a drink is literally no big deal. It lets her know that you want to get to know her, but you don't have enough time to devote an entire evening to her (be sure to communicate that to her).
4) They're comfortable and social. Two biggies here. Most people have spent more time in bars than they care to admit. As such, we're comfortable being in them. This is crucial for a day2. The more comfortable you can make her, the easier it is to seduce her.
5) They serve booze. Enough said.
6) You have an implicit reward system at work with drinks. You both have one. If you want to stay, you order another. If she wants to stay, she'll order another. Each new drink order is simply a way of reinforcing that you WANT to be there. This is a big deal for women. I've actually done some research on that item and if you only order one drink and then no more, it throws women off balance and they begin to think that you're just being nice by staying.
7) Booze = sex.
8) It's easy to escalate a drink into something more. So, a drink date is scalable in a good way. It's funny how many times the date becomes symbolic for the interaction between the two of you. The more places you go or things you do, the more your interaction's sexuality grows.
9) Relatively cheap. It's so easy to do the I'll get the first round BS with her. Most of the time, when I meet a chick for drinks in the end, I only ended up paying for my drinks because of the whole I buy, then you buy gambit.
10) The bar has a frame. Fun, social, sex, etc. If you get her in a place where people go to meet other people so they can eventually fuck, then guess what? That's going to impact her psyche and the lenses through which she views the world.
In my opinion, I don't think there's any substitute for the FIRST day2 being at a bar. Period.
Learn to at least be an average dancer. Being an average dancer and being willing to dance will get you so far.
As for the FIRST day2, I've found that there is no better first day2 than bouncing to bars. Period. Then again, I like girls that like to party so I'm a little biased here.
1) The investment is low, a drink can last 30 minutes or all night, so it's not a big deal.
2) They're convenient. Bars are everywhere and there open everyday. This means that you can have a first day2 any day of the week which is crucial if you're juggling chicks. I've found, for some reason, that I have the most success with first day2s on Wednesday and Thursday nights, and Sunday afternoon. Actually mid-week drinks are great for filtering out the quality women. High value women are almost always busy on Friday and Saturdays. I mean, who wants to go out with a chick that doesn't have plans for 'date' night? This works in reverse as well.
3) They're casual. Again, this goes back to investment. Meeting someone at a bar for a drink is literally no big deal. It lets her know that you want to get to know her, but you don't have enough time to devote an entire evening to her (be sure to communicate that to her).
4) They're comfortable and social. Two biggies here. Most people have spent more time in bars than they care to admit. As such, we're comfortable being in them. This is crucial for a day2. The more comfortable you can make her, the easier it is to seduce her.
5) They serve booze. Enough said.
6) You have an implicit reward system at work with drinks. You both have one. If you want to stay, you order another. If she wants to stay, she'll order another. Each new drink order is simply a way of reinforcing that you WANT to be there. This is a big deal for women. I've actually done some research on that item and if you only order one drink and then no more, it throws women off balance and they begin to think that you're just being nice by staying.
7) Booze = sex.
8) It's easy to escalate a drink into something more. So, a drink date is scalable in a good way. It's funny how many times the date becomes symbolic for the interaction between the two of you. The more places you go or things you do, the more your interaction's sexuality grows.
9) Relatively cheap. It's so easy to do the I'll get the first round BS with her. Most of the time, when I meet a chick for drinks in the end, I only ended up paying for my drinks because of the whole I buy, then you buy gambit.
10) The bar has a frame. Fun, social, sex, etc. If you get her in a place where people go to meet other people so they can eventually fuck, then guess what? That's going to impact her psyche and the lenses through which she views the world.
In my opinion, I don't think there's any substitute for the FIRST day2 being at a bar. Period.
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by Guest » Wed May 13, 2009 5:04 pm
[quote1242252188=UncleHOwie]The top 2 floors at the Iron Cactus are a great place to go after the HOB if you think this chic is worth your time. It has a restaurant-bar atmosphere to it. Comes with a good view from their patio and not too loud.[/quote1242252188]
Yep, Iron Cactus is good. May I also recommend City Tavern. Great sort of hole-in-the-wall atmosphere...
Yep, Iron Cactus is good. May I also recommend City Tavern. Great sort of hole-in-the-wall atmosphere...
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by Guest » Wed May 13, 2009 6:29 pm
I highly recommend staying at the HOB if you can get into The Foundation Room. That bar/lounge is prob the pimpest I have ever seen. It is just simply amazing to be there with a girl.
Now I know this is a private bar(4k a year to be a member) but who knows maybe you can squeeze your way in.
Even if you can't bounce there you should easily be able to bounce to another bar.
Now I know this is a private bar(4k a year to be a member) but who knows maybe you can squeeze your way in.
Even if you can't bounce there you should easily be able to bounce to another bar.
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