ninjamatt wrote:maenad wrote:I understand why I was successful with women and still have pretty good success today, albeit its not the level it used to be. The thing I have been having trouble seeing is the appeal of the door guy, bar tender, DJ or military personal. Ive met a lot of people in the Dallas night club scene who work various positions. I know several bar tenders, only one of which I would vouch for. No DJ or Promoter i know is remotely a cool guy. So what is the appeal here?
those type of people might not appeal to you outside the bar. But women like them for various reasons that usually doesn't pertain to long term relationships or immediate lays. I use to be a bouncer at a real popular titty bar. Patrons,Dj's, bartenders, and strippers admired me b/c I was someone who they could trust to keep the peace while they got hammered and/or made money. I was also friendly and willing to talk and laugh with anyone who talked to me. If a patron or dancer was acting stupid I would walk them out. Bouncers are the low end of the club totem pole b/c you don't have to do anything to get hired other than show up.
Military is a little bit different for a couple reasons; one is, a certain percentage of women want to marry a man in uniform b/c they find it sexy. She forgives a lot of shortcomings in their game b/c she sees discipline, government paycheck, crewcut, fitness, long term retirement benefits, etc. some of their parents have steered them that way.
Bull run said it pretty good. He used the term sterotype. all that you mention fit in to a stereo type that a lot of women find attractive in a club setting. thats why you better get on match.com
im good, I don't need the internet for girls. I do well with some hot ass girls.