dubya wrote:Dude, I think you look fine. Mainly because one of the things I keep hearing from Mystery, Style and other PUAs is that looks don't matter. And to a large extent they don't. Women are not as visual as men are. (Although I still don't believe that women are completely non-visual). But my point is, you look fine. If you're getting places with your game and haven't changed your looks, thats should tell you something...
Also, for the most part, we are not competing against Brad Fucking Pitt here. We are usually competing against average looking schmucks. And most men are just fucking ugly. Actually, most of the guys I've seen with gorgeuos women are really fucking ugly and just as often fat.
This is an interesting subject, because I've found that it's not at all uncommon for women to actually be a little intimated by you if you look too good. Society tells them they have to be attractive and thus they tend to gravitate towards men that are as attractive or less so than how they attractive they believe themselves to be. On the opposite end of the spectrum is being *very* unattractive. By that I mean fugly or really overweight. If you're too good looking or too nasty you're more than likely done, if you're somewhere in between then you're set. I've actually had this very discussion with virtually every woman I come across and they tend to agree.
You look fine dude. I'd consider doing a couple of things though:
The following might sound gay, and I feel slightly gay writing it out but it has to be said.
-Teeth whitening. I recommend this to everyone. You've got straight teeth and women love that feature. I get complimented on my teeth all the time. If you don't have straight teeth, get some braces...I'm serious.
-Tanning. You look like you have a pretty good skin tone so this may not apply to you. But, there's nothing scarier than a pale ass...and if you have any parts of your body that are a little flabby (i.e. belly), those parts don't look as bad. Tan fat looks better than pale fat. Also, tanning will help your acne if that's a problem. If you have acen GET IT FIXED! Go to the dermotologist and get some scripts for it.
-Hair cut. Go to a good stylist. None of this SuperCuts shit either. Have them go to work on your hair, it'll be worth the $50 - $60 bucks. Also have them show you how to do your hair, the steps to take, the product to use (if any). I've got a great stylist that I've used for years, she works wonders. PM me if you want her contact info.
-Eyebrows. This sounds a little bit gay, but get them shaped and keep them that way. Once you get them done once, you should be able to keep them from being unruly by plucking on your own.
-Clothes. Keep an eye on what people are wearing, especially at bars/clubs. You'll notice that the guys that seem to be doing the best aren't the best dressed, but the best dressed given the venue. Don't skimp on jeans...there's another thread regarding Peacocking that you should check out that goes into some of this.
-Workout. You'll feel better, you'll look better, and you'll be healthier. Sarging is a fulltime job and when you start juggling chicks your life becomes really busy...working out will provide you with the boost of energy that you need to handle your social calendar. Also, you'll build stamina. This comes in handy when you're nailing the chicks you've been pulling.
-Facial hair. If your facial hair is patchy then keep your face shaven. Don't let it get long and stringy either. A little bit of stubble is attractive, just don't let it get too long. I typically shave 2 - 3 times a week and almost never do during the weekend. Then again, I've never been blessed (or cursed?) with a lot of facial hair.
