she can love you whatever her current situation is. You just told me that you wanted an exclusive non exclusive relationship. Be more clear on what you want.
There are different kinds of exclusivity. For example, could be exclusive to a girl with regard to my emotions romanticallys peaking, but be non-exclusive sexually.
Exclusivity appeals to me in some areas, in others it does not.
this is contradictory of your next statement
Let me clairfy. I think forcing monogomy on a partner is controlling & harmful to relationships, however the idea of a girl I love having sex with someone else is discomforting. Perhaps it should not be, but it does, as we'd expect from evolutionary pyschology as there is a genetic pentality for a man if his gf gets preg from another man.
These are not contradictory. For example, I thinking eating right is a good thing, and I do it. But I really like chocolate fudge cake. Despite this, I choose to eat brocolli instead of chocolate cake. I fucking hate broccolli. It looks like minature trees.
Good points though, I need to clarify this before I communicate this to a girl. I do want her to be my girlfriend though (more so than I want her sexually)...how should I go about that?
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