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Re: Where can I get one night stands?

Postby Westfall » Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:24 pm

Rockstär wrote:I have been learning the game for a good two years, starting in high school in 11th grade thru now. I had a horrible rep at high school, thinking at college magic would occur. I went to Trinity College, a small school of 2000, and I got carried away one night, and was eventually expelled for bullshit. Not to mention my rep sunk the next day to zero. It happened cuz I was frustrated, thinking i could get laid the second night of school in a one nighter. WHERE CAN ONE NIGHT FUCK SESSIONS OCCUR (of course without paying money)? Should I go to a big school, are they easier to get in clubs? I want to fucking get laid, and I want it fast. Do I have to wait for a huge frat party, shoudl girl to guy ratio be a big factor of whether 5/10 5 foot 2 guy with good game can fuck hotties on demand(NOT prostitution)? Please help with ideas, no roofies or GHB please, only alcohol


Neediness/desperation is one of the most unattractive qualities to a woman. What were you expelled for?

Also what is your bad rep about. There's likely a way to reframe it.
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Postby Rockstär » Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:06 pm

well my bad rep in high school was stock trying to be cool and failing, typical high school bullshit. At college, i'd rather not get into what got me expelled, but it was not rape or really anything serious at all, it was stupid bullshit, thats why its being appealed.
But I did not ask anyone for their opinion on me as a person. I asked for some good ideas on place where NOT-paid-or-drugged one nighters can occur, me just "getting laid". How about not judging me, my game has been good, but because both social settings HS and my first month at college fucked me over, its not easy to truly judge my game, I had some close calls to getting laid at school, but didn't come thru. I asked where can I experience getting laid. I know in general one has to know or be friends with girls to get with them sans alcohol, but it takes time, and I'm already 18.

I know obviously to girls one must present higher value, I know u gotta be the alpha male, and with girls I act like I can get anyone I want, I am not afriad to go up to any girl even if she looks like Angelina. but even with game, im lookin for if anyone can tell me a kind of setting where I can use it when I see her, be fucking her an hour later or maybe slightly more. A social setting where its a possiblity it can occur me getting laid after first meeting. I would rather kill myself then resort to the honourless prostitution or drugging(meaning GHB etc. alc is not included). I know how to act smooth, but I am looking for the social oppurtunity for instant gratification.
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Postby Check_Mate » Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:29 am

Don't take it personally when everyone is giving you advice on your game man. Everyone on this forum is out to help each other out. We're giving you advice to make YOUR game more solid. If your game had nothing to be improved on, you wouldn't be having any trouble getting those Fcloses you want so much cause MPUA's can pull that stuff off anywhere, anytime.

There's something about the way you put your words that make you sound like you're really desperate to get some p*** that's why everyone is telling you to calm down and re-frame and such

If you want the short answer. To Fclose on the same night you're better off getting out there in the night scene. You'll have better chances than around your school that's for sure. I know it's harder when you're under 21 but i'm sure you'll be able to find something in your area.
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Postby phoenix_rising » Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:37 am

WOW, it sounds as if your about as smooth as sandpaper. I know you think your game is tight, but after two years of gaming, this is not a question I would expect from a PUA. Even your post came off brash and novice. Your sticking point is your perspective to be quite honest. Instead of trying to get laid within the context of a one night stand, you should try starting a sexual relationship. I can't speak for any other PUA on this site, but in my circle, one night stands aren't a good thing to be sought after. I want women in my life, not just in my bed. It sounds as if you have absolutly no concern what so ever for the woman. It sounds as if you hate women. Intentional one night stands can be psychologically damaging to any female. I suggest reevaluating you game and proceeding from there.

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Postby Twitchy » Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:53 am

There is no drive through for pick up.

It takes time to develop your look, your confidence and the knowledge of what women think and what makes them tick.

I think the root of your question is "where are the most available women at?". Available women are all around you. However, for a varietly of evolutionary and societal reasons, they don't normally hook up with random guys.

I suggest working on your social circle. Have a group of friends (guys and girls) who know you, like you, respect you and will either be willing to date you or set you up.

This is how you have an active dating life. It does not entail going to clubs and having one night stands. There are very few men I know who 1) can do that on a regular basis and 2) want to do that on a regular basis. And the few I know of happen to be my friends so I know what I am talking about.

Work on yourself. Make yourself desirable both as a friend and as a potential person to date. Build a social circle. After you do that, you will have more women than you can handle. Trust me, I am there.
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Postby Elation » Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:17 pm

dude, interesting enough is that your words inspired tons of people to jump on the same topic.

I agree with the others who have experience on here that just your writing, the way you word things, illustrates how far off your perspective on reality is.

Specifically, to your question "where to meet one-night-stands" First off, most 18 years olds don't even believe one-night-stands actually happen. The few that do were popular in highschool and were either experimenting with drugs or extremely popular, cheerleader types who fucked all the graduated football stars that were a year above them.

At all ages, especially true for your age, social skills and "popularity" type value are the strongest attraction switch. If you want a one-night-stand focus on letting the girl see how you are so far above her in the ranks of women THAT YOU HAVE ALREADY FUCKED that she is lucky to have this night as her opertunity. Plus she also has to know for a fact that if she does sleep with her that you will still see her as an extremely valuable girl in the morning and the next several times you hang out.

If your wondering why everyone is suggesting you work on your game instead of giving you places to hunt than you need to understand that you can literally meet a girl anywhere for a ONS. It doesn't matter where, it's all about your game. So just find a place where women exist and then calibrate to the social context that is going to interfere with logistics.


Or just go to Afterlife. There are tons of retarded, ugly druggie girls there that will do X and want to rub all over a guy who is semi attractive looking. Just don't catch anything
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Postby Twitchy » Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:21 pm

One thing to point out as Elation hinted at....

This post has garnered a lot of attention and responses. Why? Because it is different and stands out.

Apply this to your game and see what kind of attention you get. Stand out. Be different.
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Postby Check_Mate » Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:54 pm

Elation wrote:Just don't catch anything


If there is one piece of advice in this post that anyone should learn and carry with them forever, this is it.
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Postby JohnnyBravo » Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:18 pm

Elation wrote:
Or just go to Afterlife. There are tons of retarded, ugly druggie girls there that will do X and want to rub all over a guy who is semi attractive looking. Just don't catch anything



Where is this place? :lol: :lol:
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Postby Afterlife » Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:39 pm

its my favorite club but elation described it wrong

Its all 8-9.5 hb rolling there asses off and you have to get in with the hotshot guys their or the girls will not pay attention to you.

last time i was there i got a instant date an we bounced and all went swimming at 4am


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