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[ninjamatt]

I don't wonder... you won't be here because you live in Arkansas.

I know your advice is whack because:
1. Its not concise
2. Its not precise
3. It rarely makes sense

Anyway, back to the point at hand. Body language conveys more than words. Concentrate on the majors, not the minors. Anyone who tells you that you need some magical combination of words is deceiving you.

can you provide examples of how it's not concise and precise? I know it usually doesn't make sense. Who is giving you this body language advice? you are a pretty intelligent guy by how you post. Guys who get laid know how to talk to people, not necessarily dance. Is Ryan Durden telling you this shit

[Triumvirate]

I don't wonder... you won't be here because you live in Arkansas.

I know your advice is whack because:
1. Its not concise
2. Its not precise
3. It rarely makes sense

Anyway, back to the point at hand. Body language conveys more than words. Concentrate on the majors, not the minors. Anyone who tells you that you need some magical combination of words is deceiving you.

can you provide examples of how it's not concise and precise? I know it usually doesn't make sense. Who is giving you this body language advice? you are a pretty intelligent guy by how you post. Guys who get laid know how to talk to people, not necessarily dance. Is Ryan Durden telling you this shit

Where do I start?

First, its Tyler Durden, not Ryan Durden. If you're going to say someone's advice is shitty at least know their name.

I'm glad you are admitting that what you say doesn't make sense. If you are unable to master the english language well enough to explain your ideas, what makes you qualified to write an e-book (ha!), have a radio show (haha!), or charge people for a bootcamp (hahaha!)?

Most body language isn't dancing. If you think that conversation is key, then you lack enough experience with women to even have a discussion about pick-up. Good day sir!

[ninjamatt]

The highest percentage of quality women like intelligent conversation before someone comes up and grinds all over them or touches their wrists or whatever you are taught. You can get there if you work at it. I personally find you an intelligent guy with a lot of potential, just maybe a little bit misguided with a chip on your shoulder. You constantly come here disrespecting me like you have a chip on your shoulder.

[Triumvirate]

I appreciate you trying to help me get laid, ninjamatt. I do not struggle in this department.

I can intelligently hold a conversation with people. I do not struggle in this department.

If you truly want to help me or anyone else, you should be better at explaining your ideas to me and others. You currently struggle at this.

Have a good week.

[ninjamatt]

just keep in mind, what I suggest is based on my experience, where I go, who I am, my personality, etc. It's not going to apply to everyone. If something I post doesn't make sense to you, it probably doesn't apply to you. But it could still help others.

[IsiMan84]

Well I was about to tell you how specific to you and irrelevant your advice was, but you just cleared that up with your last post.

You're a guy nobody knows who's giving advice based on successes he's supposedly having in non-Dallas, which is obviously to be taken with an entire shaker of salt.

Have a good weekend.

[ninjamatt]

Little Rock is tougher than Dallas. I can get a 9 in dallas quicker than I can get an 8 in Little Rock. In Little Rock, there's a ton of hot rich guys with game which outnumber the cute skinny girls by a wide margin so if you want to get hot pussy where I am, you have to develop elite game and it helps to have some popular friends or be able to make some quickly. In Dallas, the ratio is a lot different. That's why I'm such an awesome bad ass mother fucker when I come to Dallas

[Tribulus1000]

You guys are all wasting your time. You should do something more productive or at least more personally rewarding.
I did this crap for like 5 years and all I got out of it was a few lays and too much time in bars chasing women who basically suck.
Trust me, you are far better off with just getting hookers or going back to college and getting girls there. The ratio in college is off the charts these days....and you guys are roaming around in bars full of cocks.
Trust me you guys....this shit ain't worth it.

Look at it this way, if you know 80 new lines and routines and you only really use 2 or 3 at the most, what good is it to know 80?
Talking like an expert doesn't make you one.

This is your life guys!
You gotta break away from this crap. Seriously.

If you like hanging with other bachelors, fine. Hang out together. No problem there.
But don't call it picking up chicks.

And by the way, girls are gotten by meeting them face to face (i.e dating) not spending 5 minutes talking in a bar.
A 5 -10 minute conversation with opening lines and banter only gets a few laughs and then a "goodbye".
If your'e not getting followup, what the hell good is it?

Sorry guys. I'm not buying it anymore.

[IsiMan84]

Little Rock is tougher than Dallas. I can get a 9 in dallas quicker than I can get an 8 in Little Rock. In Little Rock, there's a ton of hot rich guys with game which outnumber the cute skinny girls by a wide margin so if you want to get hot pussy where I am, you have to develop elite game and it helps to have some popular friends or be able to make some quickly. In Dallas, the ratio is a lot different. That's why I'm such an awesome bad ass mother fucker when I come to Dallas

I'm not going to argue what city is harder than another. I'll just assume you've never been a black guy in a small Iowa town. Or a black guy in a primarily non-black suburb in the South. Or a black guy in Orange County. I can keep going.

Anyways, I assume bad ass motherfuckers don't fall off the grid and go home DIH. Or still rate girls on the number system.

You guys are all wasting your

I'll just cut that quote off early. We've heard the spiel. I know you love the idea of non-American wives and decrying the 'game' and whatnot. That's cool, this stuff isn't for everybody. And even if it is for you, you're probably not in the elite. But anybody expecting to go out at night and NOT talk to chicks? That's an even bigger waste of time. If you're already out why not make the most of it?

I can't think of anything else I'd be doing from 10pm-2am on the weekends. Not studying or working on 'personal development' or whatever other crap, that's for sure. Some of us like to unwind.

And I guess you've never heard of a day 2 before? Turns out the girls you meet at the bars don't mind going on them from time to time.

[ninjamatt]

I know it's easier said than done for me but I think you should stop using race as an excuse for a start.
Are there not plenty of single black women out there for you? If not, go to a location where there is. If you are only looking at white girls the vast majority, I'm guessing 80 to 95% aren't going to be interested in blacks. It's socially bizarre.