Comfort zones and girls?

[ninjamatt]

It sounds like you need to get out and talk. Most pua's who try to stay on the same social level or up social levels of what they are themselves with women get in funks. When you go out and talk, you can start to learn what works and what doesn't.

I went to Dallas for the first time in 5 years this past weekend and stayed at my sisters place a few blocks from Mckinney. The first thing I did when I got to her place was walk to Mckinney about 4:30 and start talking to every pretty girl I seen on the street and just asking general directions questions "where are the bars, how far down do I go, do you know where glass lounge is (a bar Triumvirate was telling me about) etc. The further down the street I walked I had to get a little better and expand the conversations b/c I started at Golds gym knowing nothing about the area. What happens is , I built some confidence in myself b/c it was obvious the Dallas girls liked talking to me. Then when I went to the clubs later that night, I was riding on a high of confidence and felt like it didn't matter if I got blown off, b/c there was gonna be the next, and if all girls blew me off that night I would hit the street the next day. you may want to figure out a way to easily build confidence in yourself such as that, and open every one who appears to have value. guys or girls. I met a couple dudes and it seemed easy to recruit a wingman

I'm 33 and figure you are early 20's. I used to do the strip bar thing to build confidence in myself b/c most strippers were nice to me and I couldn't approach girls. But you will realize there are too many pit falls to strip bars. One of which is, they can lead you down a path you think you are doing good but you aren't. Most strippers, you could probably say something like "I'd like to lick your butthole" and they will think that's funny if you got money. Normal women or club women won't. At least it's that way here. But if you are that good at strip bar game, you could be real good at club game.

[Khaos]

I know what works for me. I'm just not as good at it because I don't think as fast on my feet because of depression(reason why I joined the community). Coming up with clever stuff and hitting on the girl with it to get past her defenses and being indirect by inceniating sexaul stuff through double entendres and innuendos work well for me and not caring what girls think works well. Also making fun of girls to entertain myself does wonders.

[ninjamatt]

If you think you have depression symptoms, don't get involved in night game. It can conquer your soul. Expand on what works for you and don't pay much attention to the forums or internet advice

[Tribulus1000]