I am alittle confused here fellas....

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I might read all that shit if you knew how to use punctuation. Is English your second language?

Any post that long, about a girl and your confusion necessitates you moving on to something better.

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I'm in the same position bro. I have a friend who some minutes seems totally into me, always wants to hang out, and not the next minute. Good luck getting through that shit I'm still lost in it.

I usually don't give advice because I'm new, but this weekend I was out w/ her and some friends at a club. Me and her were dancing early on in the night, but she never really seemed that into it. Then I approached a HB and talked to her for like a minute. Ya I approached hard to believe, but solo sarging is starting to pay off some ie.. I've grown some balls not a lot though. But back to the story I dance w/ HB for like 2 minutes then my friend bum rushes me and cuts in on our dance, but now she is grinding hard and really into it. So I guess what I'm saying is if the situation presents see if she gets jealous if another girl shows some interest. Might give you an idea of where you stand or increase attraction.

On the down side, things are still not how I'ld like them to be, but it makes me think she is more interested. I don't know it's all a vicious circle with the friends thing. I guess you really have to decide if you are willing to escalate to a point where you could lose her as a friend or just be friends. Basically shit or get off the pot.. and like everyone else has said before probably better to get off the pot.

Let me know if you make any progress.

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Any time you find yourself thinking logically about what to do next with a girl, and you're not having fun with it, consider the situation FUBAR. I went through the same thing with a girl I've had a crush on since Middle School, and everything I've learned went right out the window (sorta). I bantered, had rapport, everything, but my total inability to be indifferent made damn sure that nothing happened. I kept trying to kiss her, and she'd always turn away, even though the sexual tension was nigh unbearable.

Until

The last night we were on this road trip, I finally got frustrated with the whole thing. We were in a hotel room, and I just let her have it. Something along the lines of, "I've moved across the fucking world, and called you, and how many times have you called me? Never! Not once! Do you not understand how much I like you? Fuck you, don't give me some mercy kiss, don't fucking kiss me unless it actually means something!"

I rolled over to go to sleep, and then she rolled me over and started making out with me. The next day was like we had been dating forever, it was great.

It was way more work than it was worth, best to go find an amazing woman who won't lie to you, (though, in her defense in your situation, she was trying to let you down easy) but you're not going to be able to do that unless you don't feel the need for a particular girl.

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I might read all that shit if you knew how to use punctuation. Is English your second language?

Any post that long, about a girl and your confusion necessitates you moving on to something better.
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This post made me laugh out loud... asshole