Attraction fizzles! But why?

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didnt realize how scattered my post was... OKAY, so, you told her you werent looking for a relationship...that was good. Then she changed her story and said"ya, me either... that was good because now she is molding to fit you. you said you werent gonna call her for a few days to avoid the whole relationship frame...not that good...

you see like player cool said: you jus keep doin what your doin, let her try and try and try to win you over.
it went wrong because you did a take-away(ignored her) when she did something right. NO REWARD factor. girl tailors her game to meet you: reward with affection. I guess thats the main point.

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Cool. That clears it up... thanks Solace. Tristan, you're probably right too.

PC, I'm pretty sure that this girl lies about a lot of stuff, but in my limited experience i've found that most girls typically lie a shit-load about stuff like this. If a guy lied as much as many of the girls I meet, I would stop hanging out with him instantly, but with girls it seems like it's the norm rather than the exception. At least about things like how slutty they are, i.e. they kind of try to DHV themselves by saying they slept with less guys than they actually have. In other words, who lies more guys or girls? Invariably, girls!!

Good idea to use that line, although thinking about it I'm pretty sure that she'll get back at me in a few days. I'm planning to just meet other girls, go out some, and call her Sunday to arrange something. If that fails I'll delete the number. Pity - her promoter connections would have been nice to have. Oh well - live and learn, I'll get it next time.

Another thing that I thought of is that she may be trying to play "hard to get" and using "tactics and games". She is 18 (I am 19, not like some 40 year old) so fresh out of high school where this type of thing is rampant. Does this happen a lot to anyone else? It may just be wishful thinking though because, to be honest, girls seem to use fewer tactics than us pickup artists do.

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Thanks guys. That's the thing, I told her on the very first phone call that I was just looking for fun, AFTER she gave me this big long speech about how she wanted a relationship. Then it was hilarious... she did a complete 180 and said that all she wanted was to have some fun and that she just got out of an abusive relationship... wtf? Haha.

Yeah, I don't know, I'm probably overanalyzing this. I need to go out some more.
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She was qualifying herself :) way to go shows you set a decent frame about the relationship thing

if she just got out of an abusive relationship she could also have other issues going on you just don't know about - including thinking she doesn't want an abusive relationship but being conditioned to expecting one and subconsciously disappointed that you weren't more of a dick ;)

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Vector said it all! Its that simple. Text her some joke in a week. This kind of opens the door if she wants back on board. Let her get it started again. Your life is too important to waste it on flakey ho's so let her pursue you. I've seen it several times before where these girls are interested one week and not the next and they flip back and forth.

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Haha chicks are so motherfuckin weird!! Anyways this whole episode is just more motivation to meet more. Goddamn it I can solve a rubiks cube in 40 secs, girls should not be as complicated. Maybe soon I can get into girls pants in 40 seconds, that would be nice!! Thanks for all the replies guys.

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lol you should soooo use that to open girls

Acuity: "I can solve a rubiks cube in 40 seconds! girls should not be as complicated!! Maybe soon I can get into girls pants in 40 seconds!"
HB: OMG acuity that's so hot! come into my pants before 40 seconds!

lol lol

Actually I'm gonna start saying that to girls now. thanks acuity! lol ;)
I'm for real about using it to girls.

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You're doing great Acuity - you've made tons of progress lately so you should really be proud regardless.

Sleek thursday i'll wing w/ ya just to see how that opener goes ;)

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lol you should soooo use that to open girls

Acuity: "I can solve a rubiks cube in 40 seconds! girls should not be as complicated!! Maybe soon I can get into girls pants in 40 seconds!"
HB: OMG acuity that's so hot! come into my pants before 40 seconds!

lol lol

Actually I'm gonna start saying that to girls now. thanks acuity! lol ;)
I'm for real about using it to girls.
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Ummm I have a feeling you will get blown out using that. Hell you are DLVing yourself hardcore in about a hundred ways.

Try it on the ugliest girl there...maybe it will work. She will need to be at least two levels below you...

Good Luck

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Aww cmon PC, didn't you see what HB said? It's hot!

Haha... that reminds me of when me and my friend saw this place called Cunningham Research, then went up to random people asking them if they've ever "researched their cunningham". Don't ask.

I never did make that opener work...

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haha. or "what exactly is a cunningham? smart pigs? do they fly?