Wow I am an asshole

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It was a first for both of them once the panties dropped it was a like someone flipped the dirty little slut switch.
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lmfao

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HB Hipster is out of town this weekend so I am gonna try to fuck HB Southern again. I have noticed that simply talking about sex generally (what I do in bed) makes her horny so I may create some context to do that again and start with really light kino and calibrate from there. We are supposed to go out for a friends b day and then back to a smaller gathering. I hope to pull her to my place after. Hope it works!

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Well, I learned a lot last night. Logistics were heavily in my favor as HB Southern asked me for a ride to dinner and I new I would have a good chance to bring her into my place later. The whole night she was pretty flirty and I returned it but I wasn't as aggressive as I would be if it was just some random girl. We went to the bar for a bit after dinner and then HB Southern, myself and 3 others left to go to a friend's house. First I stopped by my house but on the way, HB Southern let me in on what she has been thinking.

She basically said she felt like a horrible friend last weekend because the day after we fucked she went over to HB Hipster's house and had to listen to her talk about how much she likes me. She asked me if I had told anyone and I said no and emphasized that we are both good with secrets. She was really concerned that word would get back to HB Hipster. HB Southern then talked about how she enjoyed it, that she wasn't even drunk, and it was a conscious choice. Then, I said that we didn't even get to have proper sex(we stopped after about 5 minutes because we were worried we would be caught) and HB Southern said, "I know and that means I am gonna want to have proper sex with you."

At my house, we sat on the couch and I had my arm around her but I didn't make any strong moves because we were gonna leave soon and I wanted to build more sexual tension. We left for the friend's and HB Southern smoked over there. During the time we were there I did some kino and flirting but nothing major because we were in front of friends. A few hours later we left and I was going to have to drive her home. I turned off to my house (which was on the way) and made an excuse that I had to pee and get some water. Back at my place, I started making out with her and she was into it for a bit. But then she stopped me and said that she can't do anything after she smokes because she thinks too much and will feel like a bad friend but that she would do it if she was drunk. I immediately stopped, told her it wasn't a big deal, and got some water. I basically played it off like I didn't care either way. Then, we were on the couch again and started making out again. Same outcome, she stops me. I try to call her bluff by saying "That's cool, we don't have to do anything." Unfortunately it doesn't work and she soon we are getting ready to go to her place. When she was walking out, she was a bit tentative so I tried one more time but it was the same thing again. I blew it off again like it wasn't a big deal and changed the subject.


I dropped her off and she asked me what I was doing today. I didn't hug or kiss her at the end because I didn't want her to be uncomfortable but now I think that may have been a mistake. I truly think that it is only a matter of time before we fuck again because she has now told me several times that she enjoyed the sex, wants to do it again, but it is just the guilt issue.[b] Anyone have comments or would anyone have done anything differently?
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I would talk about some random stuff then keep doing it. ;)

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AFC here...

Why is she the gate keeper?
PUA is suppose to be gate keeper by saying stop first... that way her mind is on the let's keep it going frame of mind.... Is that the correct method???

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She wants it, shes just got the anti-slut mechanism going on. Throw that girl up against the wall, starting making out xxx hardcore, then rip your sure off and go at it. Full Throttle man, don't give her a chance to control the situation. Make her naughty emotions over ride her common sense.

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Yeah, I think the biggest mistake I made was when I was making out with her I was more teasing her than being really dominant. It allowed her to think things through. If I would have thrown her down and gone at it she may have not said anything.

Another thing I probably should have done was to say that she is not getting laid tonight before she could object. That has worked well for me several times but I think my instincts were thrown off because of the situation.

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She already told you what to do... take her drinking :)

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She already told you what to do... take her drinking :)
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There is your answer.

Have fun.

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Thanks for all the advice! I do think it is a high possibility it will happen but I am not going to push it like I normally would because she is a friend. We go out drinking at least once a week so that should not be a problem. The key will be getting her alone. If anything happens I will keep you all aware.