She Called Me an Asshole

[Scoundrel]

I was gaming this chick last week and she said I was an asshole. I was feeling pretty cocky, so I said “well duh. I’m an asshole because women LOVE assholes.”

“No we don’t”

“Oh really? When you talk about your last boyfriend what is the most common word you use to describe him?” She was silent, so I ran with it. I opened another set sitting nearby.

“Hey, was your last boyfriend an asshole?”

“Yes.” I started going around to women all over the bar asking this. It was fun!

After about 80% of the women agreed that their last boyfriend was an asshole I went back to the first girl and said “I rest my case.”

[El Fenix]

I'm taking that idea. It will be my new opener next time I go out.

[Smirks]

I like this one...lol

[Westfall]

I was gaming this chick last week and she said I was an asshole. I was feeling pretty cocky, so I said “well duh. I’m an asshole because women LOVE assholes.”

“No we don’t”

Women don't know what the hell they want. Imagine thinking you really want Tofu (you know, because it's good for you), but you really can't stand Tofu, and everytime you get it, you're disapointed.

So women run around saying they want a guy that is good for them (Tofu), but Tofu sucks. They end up seeing some asshole (Vanilla Cheesecake), and even though they know he's bad for them, they having no self-contro, enjoys his rich creamy texture. Then the Cheesecake goes right to her ass, and she swears off Cheesecake because she doesn't like anal.

Westfall

[Smile]

Way to roll with it Scoundrel. I have had times where some women call me an asshole but only because I haven't fit into the "AFC buy you a drink, standard mold" that society creates for men but aspiring PUAs or Venusian artists don't follow (even though we are just as curtious and respectfull, if not more so). After a while, the girls finally realize that I am not an asshole, rather I don't conform to that "standard mold" and they settle down. Once in a while, I will get a girl that does not settle down and leaves pissed (but that is rare). Sometimes I will flick off the girl and smile (but you need to be careful because that is not easy to play/pull off). If you roll with the punches like Scoundrel did and play it smooth, then you can get her to do a 180.

[Scoundrel]

I didn't turned it 180, but it was some of the best reframing I've done.

[Cru$H]

another good one is: what do you expect? my parents were both cheeks and i'm a very central person.

[Smile]

Whether or not she turned a 180, you did make your frame stronger as well as control/dominate hers. Some girls do this as a shit test and if you can play it smooth then you can/will remove her shield. That is also what I mean by a 180 (going from having a shield to no or little shield).

[Bull Run]

another good one is: what do you expect? my parents were both cheeks and i'm a very central person.

I like it! I get the asshole/cocky thing a lot. I'm using this next time.

[Vector]

My opinion, prevention is better.

Some people are assholes because they have weak self-esteem and have to be mean to people to make themselves feel good. You're not that person. Don't run the risk of being mistaken for that person.