Sleek's confession 3

[Guest]

Lots have been going on in my mind lately. I have lost my passion for game.
The reason being? Well I feel like I have many other things I need to be focusing on right now other than chasin girls.
My friend who is bout 21 or 22 years old just got offered 300k dollars for his business. I actually don't know if he will sell or not, but he says it is a good deal. He began this business back when he was 19 or 20 ish. So this business has only been around for 2 years and yet gave him 100k dollars/ yr in profit. Although he is almost failing out of college right now, he is doing something right. Last time I checked, his gpa was about 2.2-ish.

With that capital, he will be doin somethin bigger. It was an instant wake-up call when I heard this. At same time, I lost all my passion and motivation for the game. I started thinking, "what the hell am I doin chasin bitches when I'm supposed to worry bout my future and be financially well off?" I started to feel like I was wasting time.

I have stopped texting/talking to girls I was talking to for a while. It's actually funny... One of the girls I was talking to, she and I ended our convo. bitterly about a week ago. I didn't even bother texting any girls and I thought I have lost all of 'em. She texted me yesterday to see what I was up to haha. I guess I learned that girls could make you wait as long as a week or more.

I mean I don't even go out all that much. Maybe once a week or none. Right now, I am spending more time doin somethin else than anything related to pick up. I spend most time checkin this board rather than studying/reading pick up anyways lol. I plan to actually read some stuff... ONly book I read regarding pick up is "the game" still... haha. Sometimes, I feel like I need some routines in my game.

I decided to list some people who I think will be a great motivation for me, but I haven't met them yet.
I know I won't be focusing on pick up all that much, but I do not want to stop this part of my life.

Sal Paradise - I always wanted to meet up with sal. He lives up in OK so hopefully when he comes down, I get to sarge with him.
Solace - new blood acuity talked about. Very interesting FR at purgatory.
Tristan - Captain Jack complimented you personally like that, you are good. Lookin forward to meet this guy.
Twitchy - only met you at taco cabana for 30 min lol. but would like to sarge sometime.
Smirks - haven't met you but seem to have good game.
Silvermouth - sound like really cool guy with some solid game

Remember those are people I haven't met yet.
You can't really help but to be curious bout people you haven't met and how good they are.

Edit:
people should post their FR to motivate newbies and others. People's FRs motivate me. :)

[Guest]

With everything in life you need Balance.

This is hard for most people to achieve. Your friend doesn't have balance however he does have 300k. That is awesome but what all was neglected in life? Family, School, Girls, ETC.

It is very hard to achieve. What you are doing now is going for balance. No one here will think negative about that. I applaud you actually.

The beauty of GAME is you need balance. Think about it. You get decent at game and you meet a lot of girls. You want a GF someday. But all these girls start getting to know you and realize you have little substance. You have little going on for yourself. Bam they get outta dodge because you are half a person.

That is why it is so important to try and get all aspects of life together. I promise you your game will improve when other areas of your life improve. Your ego and inner game will shoot through the roof. Your demeanor will change. Girls will pick up on this.

Good Luck Sir

[Guest]

PC is right on.

Improving social interactions will help you with other areas of your life, and having your life together will help you with social interactions, including those with women.

But focusing excessively on pussy (or phone numbers) can detract from other areas of your life. The same is true of money.

Keep it in balance.

[Guest]

You took the words right out of my mouth PC - balance.

If ya gotta take time for yourself, take time for yourself. Game is to help you, not run your life. I know it's been an adjustment for me as well but it just takes time to get it all balanced out. You're young and you got plenty of time -- just don't give up I'd give almost anything to have handled this for me personally when I was your age... nowhere near as easy making up for time later in life.

[Guest]

hey thanks playercool, vector, justice.
yea balance is what i'm tryin to achieve.

PC - you got ur shit together man. To be honest, I am jealous of you for this. You're a self-employed and your own boss. It shows that you're very independent and won't let anybody boss you around. It's prolly why when you get a girl hooked on you, she will stick around. It seems to me that you have achieved your balance already. Hopefully, I do the same. You have my utmost respect for this.

Vector - I think you're the same. You are financially stable and has things going for you. I think this is where I lack. Plus you have a great personality and you get along with anybody.

Justice - yea I have to be thankful that I found this at my age. Although, it's funny how I wish I found this when I was a teenager so I could have had good practice back in highschool lol. ;)

[Guest]

Then you do know how I feel sleek ;)

[Guest]

Sleek, if you approach your professional life with the same passion as you do "chasing bitches", I don't think you have anything to worry about sir !!

[Guest]

haha i will try that acuity!

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Never put women first in your life or you'll never be satisfied. Bitches are a dime a dozen.

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LMAO Sal is the man. One of the better PUAs in OK, I would say top 3 in terms of game. #1 in terms of success, gets laid a lot, however my standards are a lil higher than his. That cougar a couple months ago was yuck!! LMAO, but still someone who is very good and always improving because he is a do'er. The biggest thing is to get out and do. His other quality that puts him in the position hes in is his ability to listen to advice.