Lame dudes on the board

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This is gonna be a mean fucking post, and to preface it I'll just say that I'm a fucking asshole and that's how it is.

OK I have been out with a bunch of y'all, and it's been a lot of fun. But for what i see on here, it's time for someone to lay down some honesty because guys, seriously.

I get a lot of respect from a lot of you guys and thanks for that, but here's the sobering truth. This is gonna sound harsh. I meet some of you all who i think are really cool guys and some who are cool and are gonna pull a hell of a lot of ass. Whether you're good now, or because I see a lot of potential in you, just know that I think you're ok. I've told some of you, while some of you I think that about but I haven't told. In case you are wondering, IMO anyone who tries and actually goes out and gives a fuck is OK.

But some of y'all are absolute pussies and really truely, you don't belong on this fucking board. Every time you sit home and post i just about bust up laughing because you talk talk talk, but i have never seen shit from you. Just my 2 cents. You, I wish, would just go the fuck away.

To me, the difference is anyone who has the balls to stick with this shit is OK. Anyone who actually goes out is ok. Yeah you'll be rejected by a girl or two. That happens. I won't judge you for that, nor will anyone else who has also been thru that (which ANYONE halfway decent has, I've seen it). So to all of you who have been through the good and the bad, felt the sting of rejection and the pleasure of an SNL, a toast to you, i got your back anytime bros. To all of you nobodys who pop up out of nowhere, think you can read "the game" and pull ass and somehow bypass the newbie stage and never have a girl reject you, and quit going out to bars after one meetup and two or three weekends out but still feel the need to post your "expertise" on here and call me on my personal cellphone at all hours, suck my 8 inch cock and that's for real (the 8 inch part too, yeah! :) ). Don't waste my time, don't pm me, don't do anything but go away and leave! I've seen it before, I know horseshit when i see it, i don't have time for it, don't bother my ass.

i don't want YOUR respect, because i don't respect you. Why would I??? I'm not selling anything, i don't got no ebooks, i don't need your dumb needy, pussy ass for anything.

I realize I sound like a total dick here, fine. But seriously, I'm here looking for one thing on this board, otherwise I wouldn't even post. I don't care about dudes respecting/liking me. I'm not here for anyone's approval. I'm not running for fucking office. What I'm looking for is decent wings, and that is cool dudes with some real fucking COJONES! Somebody with the BALLS to go out and stick with it. Someone/ones who are good/bad, whatever, but at least you go out consistently, you don't WHINE when you lose a set, you take your lumps and you do the work. You have the strength to see the areas you suck at, and you work on them and don't make excuses to me as I wouldn't do to you. You realize your mistakes, work at them, and improve week after week. Then after a while, you become one of the best. A lot of guys fit that description, but a lot of guys just don't, and that's the facts.

So if anyone is the real deal, pm me anytime. But to all you other fuckers playing it safe or otherwise, well, i think you get the point.

Appreciate it. Thanks.

-peter grimm

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That is a really long penis...you must bottom out on girls a lot hahhahah...

With anything in life there are always going to be people who watch from the sideline. They are well versed in the subject however they never apply the material. I too respect anyone who goes out on a consistent basis and gives this a go. I guarantee if you go out a lot and practice you will get results.

There is an underlying issue that is the cause of your post. It can't possible just be sideline jockies. While your post is very cynical and you do sound like an ass I will leave it like this...Respect

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PC you're the voice of reason. I'm going to bed.

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If you are anywhere over the age of 18, I'd expect you to have the social skills to deal with these types of people. It's like a co-worker you don't really like...perhaps creeps you out because he blows his nose in his shirt...but you have to work with him if you want to get paid.

There's really no need to publicly degrade someone like this, really. I know you didn't use a name...but still. This person in which you are referring to is now going to feel shittier about himself, and probably become even more of a recluse than he was prior.

I've offered my help to quite a few people on here...there are a couple who it just never worked out with, partly because they just wouldn't do the necessary steps. They had a lot of inner shit to work on before even attempting approaches. I didn't belittle them on a public forum, I just told them to get their head right, and then come talk to me later.

I don't really know the situation in which you speak, but it can't be THAT bad.

Cheer up, buttercup.

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Hey Grimm I know exactly what you are talking about. Last week I went out to Austin with my friend,to go hang out on 6th street. My game was okay that night. I ws sober and actually had two long sets(you would be proud of me).In any case in total I made about 8 approaches for the night and my friend, who was drunk, made zero.Then he has the nerve to tell me that my game needs work . In his entire lifetime he made about maybe 20 approaches, in my lifetime i made about 650.Now imagine how I feel when little fucks like him tell me what I should do with my game.Fuck that shit!
As far as the post goes....Respect!!!!

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8 inches, huh. lend me 3 and we'll be even!!

I don't know your situation, but this post probably isn't going to help the person in question.

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There's really no need to publicly degrade someone like this, really.
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Thanks Murad, you rock dude.

Other dudes,
I'm not sure it's about any one dude in particular, really it's a few people. I don't mind people who suck at game, what bothers me is people who have potential to be good, want to be good, but are too chicken-shit to pay the price it takes to be good. Then they post on here and call call call and want to talk about all the shit they read from David D or some gay shit. That bothers me man.

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Grimmm,

I've only met you once. My impression of You are: friendly, easy to approach, encouraging (ie. challenge to open sets), helpful and giving. Which is great if you find that one girl who is going to suck the life out of you. But it also attracts the people you describe.

I forgot where I read it from.
It is like if you act like a Teacher... you will attract students
if you act like a Parent.. you will attract kids.
If you act like an Abuser... you will attract Abusee.
Something along these lines...

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Although I don't think grimm needed to post such info on public forum, I think it's true. You just have to go out there and make it happen. Sometimes you go out and get all wary and all so what? Get over that night and be more confident next night. As a human, you can't always be in good mood and condition. Go out next night and make it happen. Don't kill yourself over few crappy nights. Everyone has one of those. To be honest, only materials I read are
1) "the game"
2) magic bullet sample
3) sample of herbal's book

I think I learned more from interacting on forum. However, you can't compare that to how much you learn by actually doing it and learning from the mistakes.

I got into this PUA stuff this April. I was introduced to this by a girl. I got super involved with austin society members. I haven't gotten f-close yet. Few close f-closes, but couldn't because I wasn't experienced. Just go out there and make it happen. There's no other way to learn than actually putting it into practice.

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Grimm -

I have pondered these same issues before. This is not a new phenomenon. The people on this forum are definitely not always 'as advertised'.. ;0

For me it is not the guys who pussy out that are the worst. You can spot that a mile away and fine - just stand on the sidelines - I have no problem with that. It is the guy with the ego who will not listen to even the most basic of advice. The guy who is angry/weird/creepy/agitated/boring/clueless etc etc etc ad nauseam.

Sorry but your wing(s) and immediate social circle ARE VERY IMPORTANT when you are gaming and especially with cold approaches. Women look hard for even the slightest incongruency and you WILL be judged by association. Negative / creepy energy associated or related back to you or your circile is going to create un-necessary obsticles. Most early shit tests are more often than not, IMO, designed to screen out JUST THAT GUY. Solution - don't sarge with him!!

I don't even mind that guy in my set as long as he is not associated with me in any way and can't get angry with me for tooling him. Since he is just a random guy at that point he can be subtly made fun of. Chicks, god bless their mean little sense of humour and adept social nuance, love to engage in that.