Slutty girls

[Guest]

I don't like to judge anyone on the basis of morality, but I do find myself very unattracted (repulsed even) by girls that I would consider slutty. After a particular incident when a girl DLV'd herself to me after she was introduced to me by another girl, I tried to self-analyize why I lose attraction for these type of girls.

I've concluded that my attraction does not fade as a result of how many guys she is been with or how sexually active she is, which is often what most guys grade "sluttyness" on. Rather there are specific things that DLV a girl in this area.

-If a girl wants/tries to engage in sex too soon (with me or someone else)--that is without developing a reasonable level (at least a few hours) of emotional connection first. I think this boils down to standards. If a girl is willing to sleep with a guy before she has spent enough time to determine if he is quality or not, then she doesnt really have that high of a standard. Likewise, the same thing applies to me.

-If a girl is chassy when it comes to sex--I think this indicates she is desperate. Imagine a girl who gets a lot of her validation from having sex, and therefore she behaves in a very needy way about it...this is unappealing to me.

-If a girl is inconsistant in her belief and actions then I lose a great deal of respect for the girl. That is if a girl views certain behavior as morally wrong, judges others negatively for it, but still behaves in a manner that violates her own moral code, I see her both as betraying her idealogy and lacking self-control over her desires. Of course, if a girl doesn't view her behavior as morally wrong the same actions would not lower my opinion of her at all.

For the most part these are the specific underlying behaviors that lower my opinion of a girl and makes me think of her as "slutty" or undesirable because of her sexual indescresion...Im not sure if my view on this is consistant with the traditional view most guys have--that is as long as a girl stays away from these areas, she can behave in a manner many guys and girls (and they do love to judge each other) might consider very slutty, but without losing any value in my eyese. Of course I try to hold myself to the same standard.

Westfall

[Guest]

As a former dj at a strip club, I cant sleep with anymore sluts. I am just to turned off. It feels like sticking my dick in a trash can. I cant even have "just friends" that are strippers because Ive known and slept with so many.

Far more than the majority of strippers are damaged people. To me a slutty chick is just a stripper who keeps her clothes on. So when I meet what I consider to be a slut, I just see a damaged human that is prolly addicted to something. And that just dont fly with me.

If I learn that a woman has had even half the number of sexual partners Ive had, she wont be seeing my pecker. I know that makes me a hipocryt(sp) but I dont care. I can afford to be picky.

This has never happened to me but, were I to find out that one of my fb's had other fb's, she would be replaced. Again, I know that to be hipocriticle but I dont care, I can be picky.

To me sluts are out, but I would be happy to pass them on to friends.

[Guest]

Is there such thing as a girl who is not a Slut?

I haven't come across one yet.

Point me in the direction of NONSLUTVILLE!!!

[Guest]

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Is there such thing as a girl who is not a Slut?

I haven't come across one yet.
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Certainly there are girls who value their other ideas greater than their sexual desire and have the self-control to stick to their guiding pricaples, e.g. religion (which I dislike, but nontheless is a good example)

WF

[Guest]

I agree with Westfall. Non-sluts do exist. I've run into a couple of them myself. Actually I've successfully sarged a handful of virgins, only to throw them back once I found out that I would be the first.

For the most part though, PC, is correct. Girls are generally sluts.

[Guest]

I don't like slutty girls either....
I agree with most of things you guys said.
However here is the weird stuff, Pornstar being slutty is attractive... but if I had the chance to have sex with a slutty girl I wouldn't (and I didn't).

I am a bit of a germaphohia (sp?). I am really really afraid of catching something. I don't like drinking after people especially my kids (carrier of germs and main reason how I usually got sick).
I don't like shaking hands and would usually avoid it by saying hi and noding my head and keeping my hands in my pocket.
I have dry hands because I wash my hands too many times from meeting with clients.

[Guest]

It depends on what you mean by slut. If you mean in touch with her naughty side and ready to get down with a guy who has played his cards right I think that is a turn on. If you mean a girl who fucks anyone and everyone it is a turn off.

[Guest]

I met what I percieved to be a couple of sluts last weekend and I was actually suprised I was repulsed by them even though one was very attractive. I just got to thinking about how many men has she been with and I dont need to catch anything. I hate rubbers too so either way it is a lose lose situation...

[Guest]

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-If a girl wants/tries to engage in sex too soon (with me or someone else)--that is without developing a reasonable level (at least a few hours) of emotional connection first. I think this boils down to standards. If a girl is willing to sleep with a guy before she has spent enough time to determine if he is quality or not, then she doesnt really have that high of a standard. Likewise, the same thing applies to me.

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I'm not sure i agree with this specific item personally..

I think(well...know..) you can have a very intense attraction with a girl that you sleep with very quickly without spending several hours developing an emotional connection with without making her a slut....where it means she was willing to do that with you and not the guy next to you. Just like i was willing to do that with HER, and not say...her friend she is with. And i'm not just alluding to physical standards, i'm talking about those encounters where there is that undeniable chemistry, and it is just ON.

[Guest]

Well!!! Here's what's up
My parents come from pretty conservative culture when it comes to sex. Their beliefs and values have affected me tons. I didn't even try to associate with girls I thought were sluts and thought they were just trashes. I thought sluts were dirty and were low class. After I learned about the game, my mind set have changed a bit. I started to think it's ok for girls to want to have sex with more than one guys. We, guys, do want to have sex with more than one partner. Why can't they? I started to build that kind of thinking. I guess it makes difference what you define "SLUT" as.
Some people might define "slut" as a girl who wants to have sex with more than 1 partner at a time.
Some people might define "slut" as a girl having sex with fuck buddy or others when they don't have a boyfriend.

After the game and PUA stuff, this is what I think "slut" is.
A girl who has no self-respect for herself. She will use sex to get something she wants. It's kinda a gold digger. She will have sex with even 70 years old grandpa and suck him off to get some money off him or something. It's cool if she wants sex because she is truly attracted to a guy and seeking some excitment and fun. She should at least have some standards and respect it and try to follow her standards. Going out there and fucking any dudes/grandpas for money or fame or what other materialistic shit is messed up. I classify these kind of girls as "sluts." But then again, everybody has different views on what sluts are...