Need a new disqualifier

[Guest]

Ok, so I've been dicking around with direct game and I must say it beats the shit out of the Mystery Method beat around the bush bullshit. Direct game is my golden ticket. If you consider yourself good looking, if women routinely call you handsome or hot or dreamy, ditch the bullshit, pick yourself up by the balls and hit on them, openly, and right in front of their friends. It's been working pretty well so far, but I'm very new too, so the sample size is not where I want it.

That said, I need a better disqualifier. I've been using "You know, if I weren't gay, I'd be all over you." If they bring up my sexuality, it's usually on. The problem is, I've been running into a handlful of women who've actually heard this before. It's too over-used now days.

Then, I started using "You know, if you lived just a little closer to me, I'd be all over you. The problem is, I have a rule and that rule is, any woman I date can't live more than 20 minutes away." That works great and it's more authentic. Often times, they'll later bring my 20 minute drive rule up again in conversation and try to explain that 40 minutes away isn't the end of the world. AKA, it's on.

But, for girls that don't live too far away, I need a better disqualifier. It needs to be something that's not really a deal breaker. I mean, there are real deal breakers, and if you use one of those as a disqualifier, you will get blown out...for example, you're too tall or you smoke or whatever. But if I could just find one that would seem authentic but wasn't. I've thought about asking them what religion they are and using that. It would work well if they were, say, Catholic and I was Baptist. But what if they're atheist or muslim or something way off base with Baptist? If I use that as a false disqualifier, I think it would = a non-correctable deal breaker and get me blown out.

Basically, what I'm looking for is "I can't date women with _____ characteristic" but that characteristic would not be a deal breaker to the average woman OR it's a deal breaker that is easily corrected or dealt with. Drive distance works really well, but the truth is, it actually is a deal breaker.

Any and all ideas seriously welcomed.

[Guest]

I have been going over-the-top direct and it's money. One piece of advice: Stay away from religion! Never ever talk about religion/politics or any of that other shit until much later. You can use anything as a disqualifier: She could be too old, too young, too blonde, too brunette, live too far away. Just use anything, that's what I do and it's gravy.

[Guest]

I use the blonde/brunette/ redhead diqualifier with a smile all the time and it works well. "You know, you'd so be my type if I were into blondes" "They're just too much trouble in my experience...blah blah... " They know it's bullshit but it gets smile and if all the bleach has not affected their head yet then they'll play the game back.

[Guest]

Yeah, you can disqualify using pretty much anything. I usually say something really over the top like:

I'd be so yours BUT I'm really only in to 400lb black women with at least 4 kids. Thanks for playing though!

[Guest]

I might try the hair color thing. Any other suggestions?

[Guest]

My best disqualify gambit:

~Silent*: hm you must be a Gemini!!
Hb Wtever: no no no i'm a Libra (or other signs she mentioned)
~Silent*: Oh No!! I dated a Libra(or other sign she mentioned) before but she was a bad kisser!
Hb Wtever: well i'm a good kisser

if she says that it's on!!
IOI
if she doesnt...... then u didnt do it naturally
or not enough attraction

[Guest]

I find horoscopes are great chick crack but be sure you're up to speed on it. I run into girls that know a lot about that shit and I quickly find myself in pure bs mode. However, if you're good at what all the signs characteristics are it's great dhv and rapport building stuff.

[Guest]

That's a big 10-4 on the whorescopes and zodiac signs. Good material for online gaming as well. [url]www.mysticalblaze.com[/url] is where I go to brush up on astrology.

[Guest]

i personally hate horoscope but

and every girl in the planet loves it
so its a great thing to learn or get acquainted at least

[Guest]

that Dr. Mike Sartain uses "I only date black girls" to disqualify

I use distance too but I usually use it as a roleplaying / cocky funny routine. "We can't get married!! I am just not ready for a long distance relationship" Her: But I only live 5 minutes away!

A great way to disqualify is to be like we need to find you a guy!! what about him! hes totally your type. Since you are acting like you are trying to find another guy for her.

A lot of the disqualification I do is actually just negs and not really straight disqualifications. If I do disqualify flat out it is usually along the lines of "I can tell you are attracted to me, its just a shame your too goodie goodie for me"
or something along those lines. Like i will say shes attracted to me but.. Disqualify.