Looming numbers

[Neuromancer]

So, I'm sitting here, reading The Game and in the back of my skull there is a 500 lb gorilla jumping around. Have you ever been to the primate part of the zoo and seen that one gorilla tearin around in his cage or whatever they call it. Well that's what this is. It's a girls number. I got it last weekend. She's not HB 10 by any means, but she's cute and young.

I know she wants me. I could tell by how she chased after me, trying to get my number. Well I got hers instead, it's better game, and talked vaguely about getting together this weekend.

Well, lets see the obstructions. I have my son this weekend. Friday we are going to Dickens fest in old Plano. Should be target rich. I'm going with a friend and her 3 kids. I dig her but don't need any more kids in my life right now so she's out, but I will practice kino escalation on her. Nothing to interpersonal though.

Saturday night I am working door for a weekly ballroom dance. I get off at 10:30 but I promised to stop by a friends for his wifes birthday. All my other time is oriented to hangin' with the boy, the true player of the family.

So, what's the deal? Why haven't I called? Am I experiencing more fear of rejection? Am I worried that if I say I can't do anything I will loose her? Not that I care. Am I over booked and freaking out about it? Why am I not calling? What can I do to get this 500 lb gorilla to stop thrashing about in my skull? Should I even post things like this? Is my post to long? Does superman have Super strength or telekenisis? If it's strength, how come he can pick up an ocean liner and not drill a hole in it or brake it half? How come I can't spell telekenisis? Why don't I care that I can't?

[Suave]

Just get over it and call her man. If she wants you, then the obvious will happen. I am not much of a phone person, so I usually call, chat for just a few minutes, and then let her go. I either set a day2 up with her before I let her go, or I tell her to give me a holler sometime.

I dig the text messaging game a lot more. Its more fun! Girls like fun and interesting. Someone to keep them on their toes

[Neuromancer]

You're right, just do it. I think i will add that to my sig to remind me. Call anxiety is like approach anxiety. The longer you take, the worse it gets. I guess I'm still worried about the 3 day rule. It's a good addition to what I already have on my sig.

As far as the future, I got to the part in the book where Mystery meets Katya and they had a good idea. Monday is phone call day. It clears up the week. I am instituting Phone Call Mondays!

[JohnnyBravo]

As others have said, think Nike. Take her out during the week. Make her work to move up to "weekend material". It's not a bad thing to make her think you're busy on weekends at first. Even you're really not.

[Neuromancer]

Alright, everyone here so far is awesome. I'm glad I found this place. Thanks, Johnny.

[Bishopknight]

I dunno, there are 2 schools of thought.

Some gurus, like Doc Love say dont date women on fri/sat but I think Mystery would disagree because he would just social proof a date with say a group of his friends.