Odd postion - what to do with 18yr olds...

[Flash]

Hey guys - I've been around a bit, but due to personal issues - I've been out of pocket. (A good reason to NOT have a Girlfriend)

But I've been working out a lot lately, losing weight, gaining muscle and feeling good. I am gaming more and more to the ladies, including those between 18~20. I've got numbers, had good times with such girls at the time. But I'm running into a bit of an issue.

I am in my late 30s. Many girls think I am in my late 20s - and this is cool of course. My problem, is WHERE to take such younger targets. More things to talk about... etc.

It's like, okay - I have this young woman - very nice looking, but what place of interests can I take her during the week/weekend considering she can't drink in public. Yes, every one of them do drink.

Being OLDER, I know of places to take older women and of intrests of older girls... but I like to play with 18+ as well. So I have to admit I am a bit out of touch of the younger crowd. But I am getting the IOIs more and more - good. And I'll game them a bit, but I'm not going for "it" until I know a bit of how to handle them.

The idea to post this came to me today... when I realize I had a problem and needed help and figure you guys would be the best... without laughing (too much).

[Blue]

there are some bars in the dallas area that are 18+ instead of 21 and those bars are usually in the college towns. you could also go to a trendy restaurant/lounge that serves food where you dont have to be 21 to get in... going to a restaurant but sitting by the bar makes it so that you're in an intimate bar setting but then she doesnt have to get an alcoholic drink.

going out doesnt only mean that bars are your only option. of course there are the basics like movies and bowling that you could do. game nights are always fun... try something you havent done in years, like lazer tag or an arcade. sometimes just walking through a fun part of town, like uptown or victory park, can be an event in itself.

[MagicBalls]

Check the community events calendar for your area.

I think if you have a strong frame, anything will work. If you're trying to do "what's cool" for 18-year-olds, then you're not going into it with a strong frame. Think of something original, do it, and have fun.

[Flash]

Blue: I am on the lookout for such restaurants, but I need to find a bit more with my limited schedule. But I am also looking for places to dance and some of these girls are into dancing and you don't recall much in a way of a resturant-dance-clubs that allows under 21 in the Dallas area. That is a list I should really work on creating.

I remember when West End was a trendy and FUN place to go to... about 10 years ago. Last time I was there (2 years ago) is seemed lame and dead.

MagicBalls: Good ideas... city websites should have such things? I'll admit that my frame is still being repaired. I agree on the "whats cool" statement you made. I am not 18, nor do I try to act like one...

This is a good start, I'll be looking into the ideas above. I think it would be good to compile a list of places that we find that can do under-21 dancing... especially on a Fri/SAT night which is the real trick. Some of these girls do go to college and are available then. I've meet some fellow PUAs in Dallas meetings that are in their early 20s, so it would be good info to share.

[Kraven]

Hey The Flash,

Go for it. This was one of the key changes from AFC thinking for me - within going from "I need to find a woman within X years of my age" to "I just got this hot ass 19 year old girl laughing and I would like to continue"

I recommend Observer and Quick for stuff do do. Also just create things to do - a trip to the supermarket to make something, inviting friends over, etc

BTW Purgatory is my personal fall back for 18+ dance venues, there a few others (most pure dance clubs are 18+ actually)

[Flash]

Purgatory allow 18+ on fri/SAT nights as well? My "issue" with Purgatory is the 30~50min wait to get inside... I used to know some people who worked there, but that was a while ago.

Is there a good time to get in before the lines get too long?

I do not just go for 18yr old girls, it just that I've been gaming more and more and getting some IOI. When they are in their early-mid 20's they are a bit easier to work work with....

But hay, as long as they're legal - I'll take her... oh, she has to be sexy of course.... not something I would throw up in the morning.

If I find myself in a room with an ugly tall black womanish that says "I'm gonna rock your world" - Kill me.