Opinions please

[Eazy]

Things are much better since my last post. Confidence is back and I've done very well with women lately. I no longer drink so it took about a month to get used to socializing sober. I've been dating several girls. One almost got serious but we decided to slow it down (hb9 only because I don't believe ini 10s). My ex (the one) text me after not talking for 3 months. I was in bed with another girl (the hb9) which I told her about. I called her the next morning and we ended up meeting for lunch and spending most of the day together talking. We both admit to dating other people but we both agreed that "it's not the same, she misses me, I know how to make her feel good, there's things she can do with me and no one else, etc etc... Being around her stirred up some old emotions.
This past sunday she texted (drunk) wanting me to pick her up. I did and ended up spending the night. We very passionately messed around (oral sex) she wouldn't let me go all the way. She said "I want to but I don't" During the night we talked a lot and she admitted that things hadn't been working out with the guy she has been dating. I kinda got the vibe she was pretty hurt by it. We got up the next morning took a shower together and I left. Later we texted a bit and in one text she said "I was really drunk last night" i responded "happens to the best of us". Ive kept my distance since... Being 100% honest, I would love things to work out with her. I've been with lots of very very attractive women but she's always been my kryptonite. We have crazy chemistry/connection and she was the best friend I'd ever had. I know puas say to stay away from exes but our reason for breaking up was very unique...I'm having a great time dating different girls but sometimes it gets old/boring and I lose interest really fast. My game is fine, but when emotions become involved, game can slip...It's soo hard for me to say "no" to her.


My questions-
*she is extremely attractive, she's in the fashion industry, very very high social value, but shes a really sweet/cool girl, not bitchy at all.
1.Was she using me as a rebound because things weren't working out with her new guy? If so, how do I handle that?
2. How should I go about regaining control all together?
3. I know she will text me late on the weekends (after drinking) how do I handle that?

[ninjamatt]

You seem to have it made with her. Yea, you were probably some sort of rebound to some degree but who cares. maybe she didn't put effort in to liking him b/c he didn't measure up to you and you are the minimum standard she is looking for.

If I were you I wouldn't worry about falling in love if she's that great. I get the impression the 2 times I've sarged there, that there are a lot more pretty girls than guys with game to go around for them. Girls are telling me guys there don't have much social game and I can see that with the vast majority. I'm texting a girl now I met on Katy trail day gaming that would let me move in with her and we only been texting 2 weeks. There's no way I could get something that hot, that fast, that simple in Little Rock.

It also seems like maybe in her case she likes you when she's drunk, but her thought process is different when she's sober. But they say peoples true personality come out when they are drunk.

you have all the answers to your questions. No one on here knows the situation well enough to give that kind of advice. It's your decision how to handle it.

I should be back down there in a couple weeks. If you are raking in girls that hot you might need to text me. Not that I need you to help me talk to girls, but I could use a buddy that hot women gravitate too instead of avoid.(and that's not speaking of anyone I have met on here already) any of you I've met from here I could work with