by ninjamatt » Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:05 pm
I don't ever talk about past partners or STD's. It's taboo in my opinion. There's no right or wrong answer to it. If shes fucked 100 dudes raw in her life, she can lie and say she's a virgin. If she's a virgin, she may want you to think she's done 3 guys. Well you may get paranoid and think one might of had aids now she does. Then you got any numbers in between and then your answers and her thoughts on you. Live in the situation, not what they tell you they've done in the past. Now occasionally you get one bragging about all the dudes shes fucked. Thats one to look out for.
You are a real young I assume inexperienced guy. Once you have been around a few women, not necessarily even dates, you will start to figure out who the sluts are before you ever stick your dick in them just by how they act leading up to it. I've had women I met in clubs or social circles start shedding clothes almost right after I shut the damn bedroom door. A little kissing and it was on. Some were women I didn't think I could trust and I didn't fuck and sent on the way in the morning, some I knew werent sexually active just starved for something like me b/c I appear wealthy and strikingly handsome. And some never made it through the door. You sound like you are speaking from viewing online ads for sex that say "must be clean and std free" Duh. these are the ultimate socially weird-awkward-shy people wanting any old piece of shit to show up at the door and take off their clothes. Isn't it obvious, no one wants to sleep with someone who has stds? why does it have to be said? I've been with a few women before and try to avoid using a condom but about half will insist on it and a few I need it. Some I knew weren't going to have my baby any way and if they did, I would just deal with it. The older you get, the more women you'll find that are on birth control and don't even actively fuck. But they stay ready to give it up raw for the right guy. And these are clean, every day women
I think you are reading too much in to what happened with the phone number. The girl either thinks you have higher value than her and she had nothing to lose by giving you her number, or she being new to the area she is looking for guy friends, or what is most likely is that she sees you as a potential patron she can make money off of. You text, she says she would like to see you in her bar at such and such area. Either way, a lot of other assholes likely have her number too, bro. I don't put much emphasis on either type. Also, strippers aren't as slutty as you think. I used to bounce at a strip bar and knew some intimately. I had to spend a lot of time in their damn dressing room and overheard their drunken stripper chatter. I would venture to say a decent percentage of the younger ones are virgins. Also, this chick may be lying and just want you to think she was a stripper. They usually don't go from stripper to jello shots. It's a demotion. If they do, they are cash grubbers.
One more thing to remember; the hotter they are, the harder you have to work to get the number and convert it to sex.
Sorry everyone. didn't really want to post again but. Just trying to help this kid.