Let's clear the air about some things;

[ninjamatt]

1.) You guys think I'm some arrogant troll who lives 317 miles away and should not be posting here.

This is a message board. No one has seen me or met me but maybe someone can read what I put and relate it to their real life situation. I don't have any reason to come here and lie about my looks or success. I'm not gonna tell you I'm out banging a couple 11's every weekend b/c I'm not.

2.) You guys think I "called out" Bull Run.

How do you define "call out"? Let's define probably how you think of it in that, I tried to embarrass him publicly by challenging him to meet me and see who has more game. I put him in a precarious situation b/c he doesn't know if i'm a total loser which will reflect bad on him, what exactly sits behind this computer, or what kind of scenarios I could get him in to in real life. I took a guy who is established as a respected friend and probable mentor in the field and on the forum in your community, and made unfounded, empty offers as to call a bluff to come to a random meet to get a reaction. When all I had to do is stop coming to the forum if things didn't go my way, or I couldn't make it, or"chickened out". So for that, I apologize to BullRun, and the readers. HOWEVER, THAT WAS NOT MY INTENT.

3.) The "back pedaling" and the "a man bragging on a forum about his skills is insecure" has a lot of logical merit on a forum.

But, I wasn't actually back pedaling. An offer was made by a poster to meet and sarge at a black venue. This poster was one who I haven't read his material quite as much as BullRun so I felt like I didn't have a good feel for his persona as much. Furthermore, my post he referenced which suggested I could seduce 50% of black women also stated I don't like black women. So, I didn't feel the need to consider the offer valid, workable, or even logical. Therefore, I lost a level of interest in sarging anywhere with the person making the offer.

The other theory goes back to the point I made first. I sound full of myself at times, but you can still apply it to real life. Even if you want to consider that I'm not what I say, there are plenty of people similar to what I claim I am. The descriptions I have given of myself or my game, if I'm not mistaken, have always been from a prospective in response to a post to help another person, based on my 11 years of clubbing and pick up experience.

4.)You've asked why do I post here if I do not live here? Do I have a "hard on" for sarging with BullRun?

If you go back to a couple of my original threads, I was trying to find a couple contacts in Dallas b/c I want to sarge the area and learn the venues and etc. I want to go there b/c my city's nightlife is fairly small and I know too many people which limits my time to do what I love. when I got to this forum, I had no idea what to expect. I had no idea about the sarge meets. I had no idea what kind of people to expect once I learned of the meets. My original intent was to come possibly every other weekend b/c I was not working friday through sunday. I didn't know if these forums were full of a bunch of 30 year old Hugh Hefners, or drunk rednecks that like to fight, or the socially shy-scared or what.

As far as my intent with sarging with BullRun, here's the bottom line; he emerged as a person I related too most by how he answered some other peoples posts over a period of weeks. Rather or not I sarged with BullRun, was not the point. I wanted to meet him and if nothing else see what kind of contacts he may of had in the area. If he had none, we would make some or I would just make my own but at least I would have one first contact with someone in the industry, in the area. The reason I appeared in your eyes to call him out is b/c I considered the " if the shoe were on the other foot" theory. Now, if someone called me out or challenged me or came up to me at the club or said let me drive 300 miles and lets see who's best, I'd say "hell yes, lets do it", and even postpone anything else I was gonna do. The reason being, the more sophisticated of a player I can hang with, the better I'm gonna do and if nothing else, I'll learn something along the way. But, I'm also a little off my proverbial rocker and I didn't take that fact in to account.