Reading material and success?

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[QUOTE=Murad;40878]Couple things man:

1)You seem to be arguing with the advice that people are giving you on this thread.I have met some of them and they know what they are talking about,if you at least consider doing what they tell you to do you will reap benefits.

2) STOP READING IMMEADIATELY.Guys with the too much information do not get laid much. Go out sever times a week and make sure that you travel with bare essentials for the night-meaning- go out with 1 or 2 ideas at the most,you will be able to focus on them and take action.

3) ACTION is king.No amount of reading will make you better.Now reading does help reprogram beliefs and thinking habits but if you want to get good at this-you need to take action!And taking actions is hard if you are stuck in your head with all the theory.

4) RESULTS- wont come to you right away. Me and other people on this forum,have paid our dues- WE FAILED A LOT AND WE SUCCEEDED A LOT. Have faith in the process and keep on doing it-only by putting your nose to the grindstone will you see long term results and improvements.

I know that I need to tell you theese things because I am guilty of doing them myself- I am very analytical and getting stuck in me head is my greatest bad habit.If you develop your skill to get out of your head and get focused on the moment-ie. BEING PRESENT IN THE MOMENT, then you will improve faster.

Now,get out and take what you want.[/QUOTE]

Thank you, I plan on doing so. I want to be back to my glory days where I was actually good with women before I lost my touch. I plan on sarging until I get back to the level of skill where I was pretty efficient by my own standards. Hopefully I exceed that and get to greatness like some of the people on here.:D

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Maenad- Sometimes we must first let go of our past before we can move forward successfully. Holding onto the past can foster limiting beliefs that hamper future success. In almost every post you make you mention your past......as successful as you may have been.....its a boat anchor holding you down.

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[QUOTE=UncleHOwie;40880]Maenad- Sometimes we must first let go of our past before we can move forward successfully. Holding onto the past can foster limiting beliefs that hamper future success. In almost every post you make you mention your past......as successful as you may have been.....its a boat anchor holding you down.[/QUOTE]

Thank you, but I thought your supposed to use your past for calibration. I'm using my own because this stuff used to be really easy for me and it motivates me to be as good as I used to be. I got make outs at 10, head before I was a freshman in High school. Plus by the time I was a freshmen in High school i had girls wanting to cheat on their rich boy friends because I was doing stuff right. I had a lot of game so much to the point that most of the hottie's in school wanted to date me because I was witty and charming. I don't say any of this to brag, I just desperately want to be my old self because I was the guy whom most people loved to hang around and was skilled with women with out much effort. I just joined the community because I thought it would help set me in the right direction upon which I could put the puzzle pieces of my life back together after going through severe depression(which I'm almost out of).

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Calibration doesn't have anything to do with what you're talking about.

Do you go back and read what you write? You've been told 15 times to forget about what you did in high school and you are still talking about high school.

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Maenad, you should definitely use your past approaches to learn from them, that's why all the good puas write field reports. It makes you replay the interaction to see what worked and what didn't, so that you can internalze the concepts and learn from your experiences.

However, the reason(s) you were sucessful in high school are more than likely no longer applicable. I say that because people in different stages in life place (more) VALUE on different things. The things girls found in hs to be attractive aren't the same things women find attractive now (Though, the underlying motivations still apply).

For example: most high school girls wanted to date the captain of the football team because they were cool and popular. Well nowadays, women don't give two shits if you're the captain of your co-Ed softball team. But, what they do find attractive is that you're the leader of men (aka alpha). Girls in hs didn't even realize that THAT is why they found hs football players in hs attractive.

[corollary: hs dynamics still exist today, especially in the club scene. Girls will still want to date the coolest, most popular guy. But, the majority of women are NOT a part of the club scene and will still find high value men attractive]

What I'm saying is: it's ok to use your past as motivation, but it is likely that what made you successful in hs won't make you sucessful now. Instead, focus on what really makes you a man of value and women will be attracted to you.

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;40889]Maenad, you should definitely use your past approaches to learn from them, that's why all the good puas write field reports. It makes you replay the interaction to see what worked and what didn't, so that you can internalze the concepts and learn from your experiences.

However, the reason(s) you were sucessful in high school are more than likely no longer applicable. I say that because people in different stages in life place (more) VALUE on different things. The things girls found in hs to be attractive aren't the same things women find attractive now (Though, the underlying motivations still apply).

For example: most high school girls wanted to date the captain of the football team because they were cool and popular. Well nowadays, women don't give two shits if you're the captain of your co-Ed softball team. But, what they do find attractive is that you're the leader of men (aka alpha). Girls in hs didn't even realize that THAT is why they found hs football players in hs attractive.

[corollary: hs dynamics still exist today, especially in the club scene. Girls will still want to date the coolest, most popular guy. But, the majority of women are NOT a part of the club scene and will still find high value men attractive]

What I'm saying is: it's ok to use your past as motivation, but it is likely that what made you successful in hs won't make you sucessful now. Instead, focus on what really makes you a man of value and women will be attracted to you.[/QUOTE]

I disagree respectively. heres my break down of what i did.

1. use my sense of humor to work the class room
2. good at teasing
3. the humor/being fun gained me a lot of social proof(friends)
4. people would constantly come to me during hanging out to make a decision(leader of men).
5. never did anything creepy until I lost my social skills(11th& 12th)
6. My whole life ive protected those i've cared about(protector of loved ones), I'm always there to defend my loved ones no matter what.
7. said wheres your off button(neg)(9th grade)
8. Was good at C&F, I would sit there and bust on girls all the time.

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[QUOTE=maenad]I disagree respectively. heres my break down of what i did. [/QUOTE]

I know you have a challenge with language, so let me introduce you to a term.

[B]pro·logue[/B]
   [proh-lawg, -log] verb, -logued, -logu·ing.
–noun
1. a preliminary discourse; a preface or introductory part of a discourse, poem, or novel.
2. an introductory speech, often in verse, calling attention to the theme of a play.
3. the actor or actress who delivers this.
4. an introductory scene, preceding the first act of a play, opera, etc.
5. any introductory proceeding, event, etc.: Appetizing delicacies were the prologue to a long dinner.


Now I will use it in a sentence.... [B]Your past is prologue.[/B] This means your past is nothing but an introduction. A slideshow of where you have been and what you have done. Your experiences in High school have no significance on how you will do in the field tonight. The fact that you got head from some chick when you were 10 doesn't prove anything. However, your experiences tonight, will have an impact on how you do tomorrow night, if you choose to learn from them.
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I urge you to not live in your past, but to embrace your present.
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You have a choice. Swallow the blue pill, you continue to believe that your past matters, that you can get better by studying books and watching youtube, Or....Take the red pill, and let the people in this forum show you what you can accomplish by listening and acting on what they suggest.

My final piece of advice to you, is stop being disagreeable. The men on this forum have helped me move from a marriage with a legally bind chick that ended in divorce to fucking a hottie the likes of which I never imagines I could be with before. They know what they are talking about, and they know how to help a man recognize his value and harness his energy.

wow didn't mean to rant.. but fuck all of you.. Im not sorry. :D