by Guest » Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:11 pm
[QUOTE=maenad;40073]sarcasm? or are you being serious?[/QUOTE]
haha, he was being sarcastic....(i think, with UH, you never know! :eek:)
but seriously, this may work, but it really depends on the circumstance. if anything, i would say it in short, concise statements rather than telling her an erotic story or fantasy (innuendos and such)--say things that would create sexual tension...
for example, when you hug a girl (you're dating or fucking), pull her in by the small of her back, lean in for the hug and slowly whisper into her ear, "damn, you smell good...(a la hank moody)." back off, gaze in her eyes for a second while having a michevious smirk on your face for full effect. this will definitely create sexual tension.
there have been times when i was at a formal event and whispered into my date's ears how hot she was and how much i wanted to ravage her right then and there. obviously we couldnt, but the thought of it excited her and created arousal. it usually led to clothes ripping off once we got back to her place.
you can send dirty text messages (sexting) while at work to create sexual tension and anticipation.
see my point?