The 9............

[Guest]

I've been lucky enough to date some very attractive girls in the past year but it just didn't work out long term for whatever reason. I can't help who the hell I am attracted to but it seems the majority of these girls have got some real issues. Issues that would most likely cause problems long term. Then when they tell you their past history you almost cringe at some of the stupid choices they've made.

I have a good friend who's sister was a model so he hung out with all her model friends. He told me he'd never want to be with one long term because most of them had so many issues.

So here I sit wondering if what I want even exists? Have you guys been with any HB9's who didn't have serious issues?

[Guest]

Yea, but they are few and far between. I only seem to meet those types of girls when I'm at my best. The easiest way to meet them is through girls that are your friends because most girls like that don't go out much.. They just don't have to. They are out there just maybe you may have to look in some places that you never have before.

[Guest]

From my experience, all girls have issues of some sorts. Sometimes it lays dormant for quite some time before it becomes apparent. I also often think that the reason why many of us in the community are attracted to these kind of women is that we have issues ourselves, or we wouldn't be here trying to correct them. Perhaps you can take solace in the fact that all interesting people have a personality flaw of some sort; it's part of what makes their character unique. The alternative is being a dull person.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Fuzz;38583]From my experience, all girls have issues of some sorts. Sometimes it lays dormant for quite some time before it becomes apparent. I also often think that the reason why many of us in the community are attracted to these kind of women is that we have issues ourselves, or we wouldn't be here trying to correct them. Perhaps you can take solace in the fact that all interesting people have a personality flaw of some sort; it's part of what makes their character unique. The alternative is being a dull person.[/QUOTE]

Quoted for truth. Everybody has their demons and most hot girls have either been abused or damaged in some way shape or form.