aloha - first post - an introduction

[LoPan]

hey playas,

good to meet you all. this place is packed with golden information. thanks for having it available to everyone who needs it.

ok - so after being introduced to "The Game" by one of my friends, i tore through it in 2 nights. it was brilliant as both an informational piece and as a story. this wasn't the first reading i've done on the subject of meeting and conversing with women - a few years ago i was on the DeAngelo mailing list and read his material. i learned a lot there, but didn't really put any of the material into practice. though, it was highly eye-opening, it didn't hit home like strauss' writing.

hindsight is 20/20 and in retrospect i can see very lucidly why i was never successful with females throughout my years in public school. i actually remember in middle school visualizing the subject of my one-itis for many years as a pristine gem atop a pedastool which i could never reach (i wish i could go back and slap myself for that... there was no reason to think she was any different from anyone else). she was pretty and i knew she was smart, but i almost literally never talked to her. too shy to ask in person, i even called her once and asked if she wanted to date me. i knew nothing about socializing with girls. when i did make attempts, i was outright rejected. this is what i believe to be the cause from which my present-day social anxiety was created. i believe by dedicating myself to the world of pickup, and becomming comfortable talking with people i've never met, many of my anxiety problems will be solved.

when i'm comfortable around people, i'm one witty mofo who can hold up a conversation. i love being creative in conversation, so i've been opening with situational, rather than canned, lines.

posture, smiling and eye contact - it's amazing how much communication is non-verbal and how much these few actions will change the way you are received by women. also, smiling and making myself laugh are very effective ways to naturally elevate mood

though i am very new at this, i can already see huge changes. i'm beginning to notice when a woman is wanting to be opened just by her body language.

i plan to be posting field reports very soon. my college and nearby mall are absolutely overflowing with strikingly beautiful women. gotta love the wealthy parts of dallas.

hitting the ground running,
LoPan

"all answers come from within, but sometimes assistance is required to find the route to your answer"

"we will hold the greatest heist ever. we will steal back our lives from ourselves." - LoPan