Can you work on PUA and be in a LTR

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[QUOTE=Bull Run;37813]This biggest reason to cut her loose is your development and growth (because it's always about YOU first). You only grow if you're hungry to grow. But, when you're getting fed pussy from your LTR how hungry are you going to be to push yourself to approach? A man with a fridge and pantry full of food never stole from a grocery store. Same thing applies here. You're not going to approach the way you should because you're still getting fed.[/QUOTE]

I would also like to add that to be good at game, you must be a man first, and that starts with a foundation of integrity. If you have integrity, then that trumps everything else. If you don't, then everything else will be slightly off, incongruent.

I have found that much of life is learning to accept one state or another. When something frustrates you, the healthy thing to do is to put yourself in a happy and content state. When you're unproductive at work, the appropriate thing to do is put yourself into a state where you are focused and enthusiastic about the task at hand. Same thing goes here. If you really love this girl and you want to be with her, then it's just a matter of accepting that state of the committed guy who loves everything about her, even the things you don't like, and wants to be fully present in her life. In my opinion, a man of integrity wouldn't half-ass it.

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finally haha! i was waiting for someone to make a salad tossing reference already!!

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[QUOTE=SaladSpoon;37820]finally haha! i was waiting for someone to make a salad tossing reference already!![/QUOTE]

Are you trying to sell your 'services' here? I had a feeling you were gay with a power ranger avatar and hugs and kisses sign off.

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[QUOTE=jast;37729][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I was thinking of going out and at least working on my cold approach and just general conversation skills. I found out how much I had slipped when I woman walked pasted me this weekend at Star Bucks. She just had that look I really really like and I could not mange to say Hello to her. The whole weekend after that I was just pissed at myself.[/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I really want to start working on this again now. My problem is how to frame it to my girl so she does not lose it. I can see it now[/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Jast:” Babe I am going out to hit on girls but don’t worry I am not bring any home[/FONT][/COLOR]
[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]LTR: WTF![/FONT][/COLOR]

[SIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Not sure what to do [/FONT][/SIZE][/QUOTE]

If you are pissed that a girl walked by and you couldn't muster the words to say hello then you should break up with your GF.

It sounds to me like you are still craving the involvement with other women.

EDIT: I didn't read the thread before posting. Didn't realize this advice was already given.

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[QUOTE=Gunslinger;37821]Are you trying to sell your 'services' here? I had a feeling you were gay with a power ranger avatar and hugs and kisses sign off.[/QUOTE]

sorry man you're not my type.