verbal sexual escalation?

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Great question...

I think this starts from the very beginning. Your passive value and do you communicate as a sexually confident man. If you do.. and you already have attraction then it lowers those walls and her internal creep alarm. You are able to get away with more. I'm always communicating fun-sexually and for some reason keep having girls compare me to Dane Cook. But, whatever...

I don't think about what to say, but rather where... I try to get her into comfort by isolating her to sit down. From there I work towards a kiss close which really sets the tone for anything else.

I use that with innuendos and comments like...

1. Let's sit down.. ( this segways to kiss close )

2. Man, I'm hungry.. I really want some breakfast.. can you cook pancakes? I move towards finishing the night with homemade breakfast. And if there was any type of positive answer then I'll say at appropriate times something like: Mmmmmmmmm..... pancakes! You end up her place naked.. half the time no pancakes are fixed.

3. Man, it's hot.. I just want to go jump in the pool... end up in the pool and smooching and more ( segway to kiss close )

4. Talking about music. Man, I really want to listen to xxxx... before first track Aerosmith is on your kiss closing.

For me... it's all about where. Proceeded by the excuse to get there. Worst case scenario, ex: bounce her for breakfast and use any one of these other excuses and micro-stage it to Fclose. It's easy for me this way. Too easy.