text conversation with girl

[Guest]

Me: Hey there what are you doing this weekend?
Her: Who's this?
Me: _____ - we met the other night
Her: Oh yeah i didn't save your number. Nothing i'm in wichita falls
Me: Thats right how is it up there?
Her: Boring

thoughts. the fact she didnt save my number and the one word reply are bad signs, right?

I didn't really have anything to follow up with so I let the conversation drop at this point, it's not bad etiquette to stop a text convo without an official "goodbye" right?

[Guest]

Since I didn't see the pick up, it's hard to say how I would start the text convo and with what content, but your first mistake was your opener. You asked her what she was doing this weekend, which implied that you were interested in setting up a date. I wouldve opened with something fun and flirty.

Pua: hey dork!
Her: who's this?
Pua: prince charming. We met last night.
Her: oh yea, I didn't save your number. I'm in witchita falls (ok, I think she is saying she's not interested by stating that she didn't save your number)

At this point you have two options, plow, or end thread and delete her number. I personally wouldve plowed for a bit and then re-evaluate the situation.

I think the biggest problem you had was that all your texts were questions - none of which led to anything fun and / or interesting. It seemed like an interview....

[Guest]

Prodigy is 100% right. DON'T ASK QUESTIONS!!! Instead, make inferences. In other words, ask questions using statements. Here's an example:

I'm going to take you on a proper date...I'm free tomorrow at 8.

Remember, don't ask. If you ask that implies that you don't feel as if you have the 'right' to demand. Men demand. So, next time make sure that you presume that she's going to go out with you and the next step is only a matter of when...not if.

Saying that she didn't save your number implies that she's not interested...saying that she's so far away just adds to her disinterest. When a girl meets a guy that she likes, she's going to be incredibly eager to fulfill his wishes. She'll save your number, probably talk to her friends, and wait for you to make a move. She usually plays coy, but don't fall in that trap. Keep your dialogue strong and powerful...

[Guest]

It's a good thing to put yourself in her shoes. Imagine you get 1000 texts a day from guys. Just think how many ask those sorts of questions. Don't you think answering that would get pretty old at a point? Don't be that guy. It's ok to ask how was your day type questions, but only if you move on to something more interesting extremely quick. I.e. your next statement. Or do as prodigy says and just go ahead and open in a unique way from the very beginning.

[Guest]

I agree with all of the above. If I ask a question, I try to insert some standard for her to live up to. For example, instead of saying, "what are you doing this weekend?", I would say, "what kind of trouble are you getting into this weekend?" If she says something like, "none," I'll say something like, "that's disappointing. Work on that and get back to me."

Another example is, "how awesome is your Monday?" You can do this with statements too like, "make today awesome. That's an order." Even if it's phrased as a question, it's actually not seeking information, it's telling her that you're in a good mood and she better be on board or she'll bring you down.

Otherwise, I agree with the others. Make statements.