Some things to think about...

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Do you genuinely like people? Are you interested in what makes them tick? Are you in the game because you want something from women (like sex, validation, etc), or is talking with and being around people a reward in itself to you?

Are you aware of your own emotional state? Could you describe it, and could you describe why you're there?

Are you aware of other's emotional states? Do they matter to you?

Do you kiss and tell, or do you have a desire to preserve a woman's reputation? Do you make her feel safe?

Do you think about what you say before you speak and filter the words out, or do you speak from the heart - and words erupt spontaneously from your feeling without filters? Are you aware of your own masks, and the front you put on to the world?

Are you genuinely interested in what you're saying, or are you trying to impress someone else?

Are you present in the moment? Are you listening to the conversation happening in front of you? Or are you thinking about something else? Is your attention flowing and in the moment, or is it stuck on something?

Are you in your own head, or is your attention outside yourself? Are you thinking about the next thing to say, or are you listening to what she's saying and picking up on signs? Are you interested in being cool, or are you more interested in drawing out the best in other people and making them the best they can be?

Do you know yourself? Do you know what you want in life? Do you know what you believe in, and what you're all about? Do others affect that? Do you have a vision for the future, an ambition and drive to reach that vision? Do you stand up for your standards, and select people based on them?

Are you OK with where you are in your life? Do you get angry or down when things don't go your way? Are you in control of your own destiny, or are you a victim?

Are you comfortable talking about sex? Do you believe that women want you?


Some things to think about.