Why it is better to go out alone to meet women than with a w

[McMaax]

You can't master everyone until you master the ONE which is you!

To really master your skills, nothing beats going it alone.


Let me use an example in IT or Information Technology to draw the parallelism


There is something called an IP address, which stands for Internet Protocol. It is a numerical label that is assigned to devices participating in a computer network utilizing the Internet .When you browse the internet you are using an IP address to connect to various web services. Now you may not be the only one using that IP address but may be sharing it with a host of others as well.


The problem with using a "shared IP" address is that if anyone using that IP address engages in illicit behavior like creating a phishing site to fraudulently draw customer banking info, sending spam mail, has a website that promotes racism, hate, child pornography or anything like that, then because of that one bad apple's bad move, the entire IP is blacklisted and everyone using it, including you cannot access certain networks that have blocked it. In other words, the other person's bad behavior created a negative effect for everyone.


The solution for this is to get a dedicated IP address whereby you are the sole user.



Now here is the parallelism between the Internet Protocol idea and going out to practice talking to, attracting, seducing and dating women of beauty and quality.

If you go out with guys that are not experienced at winging, or are just plain amateur when it comes to speaking with intelligence, confidence, social adaptability, having experience dealing with varying degrees of personalities from the high strung, high energy party type girls, to the more pristine corporate, educated and intelligent breed of beautiful women and they screw up during an interaction at one of your boys night out evenings, then because you are associated with that person by either friendship, acquaintanceship, or wingmanship, you will automatically have low value attached to you by the women.


See women cast judgment of innocence(Alpha) or guilt(Beta) by association to save themselves a lot of time in dealing with losers and beta drones. So even though you may not be one, your friend or wing's negative actions will cause a woman to be just as repelled by your presence. Hey ever heard the expression- "Birds of the same feather flock together"? Of course you have. This is not just an old cliche but an actuality with respect to one of the factors women use in sizing our worth and appeal. It is calculated then, through the actions, non verbal traits, behavioral patterns of the people we associate with then.


So make sure that when you do go out and if you absolutely need to use a wingman, because you just can't bare getting out into the trenches alone, that your wing is better than you. Someone who can talk you up, increase your value in a social venue by being a social leader and a high value exhibiting guy.

This is not a new concept but an old one. It is based on the "Mastermind Principle" outlined in many success and peak performance books. It is the idea that if you want to become successful associate with those that are already at the pinnacle and not on the climb. Those that are smarter and more experienced than you because this will cause you to aspire to be like that, much more so than if you associate with someone whose skill level is equal to yours. Make sense? Good!



I do however, recommend going out on your own for many reasons.


It will toughen you up

You will not have anyone to fall back on to get into fluff talk with. Hence it will force you to keep opening strangers to keep your momentum going

Your skills will skyrocket in 1/5 of the time as you will have to deal with different types of women, sets, social domains, venues, environments, contingencies all on your own, without anyone there to help you.

Pretty soon you will own the social arena and then a wingman, remember one who is great will only complement your already tight game and not be a substitute for it, nor a hindrance.



Best of luck

McMaax
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