by Guest » Fri Mar 26, 2010 8:22 pm
[QUOTE=Bull Run;35504]Understood. But, why is it that Game becomes secondary? I remember a day when we would go out and all of us would sarge, even if we were in a big group. It's just what we did.
I think the reason it's become secondary is because we grow tired of dealing with the same bullshit from women over and over. Which, in my opinion, is a function of the fact that we roll into the same places and sarge the same type of women, the very women that we have grown tired of because of their predictability. When you pretty much know what's going to happen next, it takes the fun out of life.
I'll bet that if you decided to start hanging out in places outside of our worn out Uptown - Sherlocks circuit, then you'll find your desire to sarge grow because you're exposing yourself to new types of people.
It's the Law of Diminishing Returns. Pick your favorite food and commit to eating everyday for lunch and dinner. The first meal will be worth a ton to you, the second not so much, by the time you get to the 10th meal it's lost a lot of it's value and utility, eventually you'll reach a point where the meal possesses negative value (i.e. someone has to pay you to eat it). When you get to this point, substitute the meal for something else.[/QUOTE]
Don't see how that can be true. I used to love going to the same places. I felt comfortable, the girls were hot, and I did well. So naturally I would like to return to those establishments. In turn I would go to some places that I hated, had women of low quality, never had results, and clearly would like to never go to again. The Addison-Uptown Circuit you describe can't be completely run over by girls that are worthless. I don't buy that for a second. If that is truly your thought then you might want to rethink what you want out of a girl, and thus change your target market. It can't be that it just doesn't exist in these venues.
Game became secondary to everyone for different reason I suppose. I have mine and I would imagine others have theirs. At some point I will return to the game and I can't imagine going out without game being right up there with hanging with the boys. When I used to go out I was hungry. I was upset if I didn't meet and number close at least one girl. That was an upsetting evening.