My sticking point

[Scoundrel]

I’ve gotten my rap pretty tight. I can have a fun conversation with just about anybody and about almost anything. When things lull, I have a few interesting routines to fall back on and I’m coming up with new ones all the time. I get compliments on my clothes often. Even when I’m wearing only jeans and a T-shirt. I have good social proof in a few target rich locations and women frequently open me.

My sticking point is going kino. I have a hard time with that first touch. I’m always afraid it’ll come off as creepy. So, most of the time I wait until she kinos me. But, when she does, my body tenses for a second. Something in my head flashes and I know the game has just changed. I now know she’s into me and I freeze. Before, it was just fun, now things are going places. This MEANS something and I feel like I’m in over my head.

I know, it’s just something I’m going to have to work through and get used to, like approaching, but if any of you know something that would help...

[Neuromancer]

become a hugger. Hug everyone. It sounds weird but it's great. The only people who don't like a hugger have issues anyway so fuck em. Hug everyone you meet. if they back off just say, "What can I say, I'm a hugger." If you think that's weird, think about what I did. I started kissing men. When I ran into friends I would kiss them on the cheek. I still have straight male friends that I kiss on the lips. As it turns out, It's an amazing DHV. Women see it and realize I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. Furthermore, It increases my likelihood of a kiss close because if I kiss guys on the lips, what's the big deal. Of course I tend to go to extremes. It has gotten me into fights before though.

[Finesse]

I have found that starting off with the back of my hand works well for me like when you say something like, "I bet youre the good girl of the group." touch her with tip of your fingers, kinda where the finger nails are. It's easier to transition into real kino and mean it then. Or like when youre doing C&F (if you do) you can kinda like hit them in the playful high school flirting type way, but don't hit just like tap their arm.

Since that is a IOI though you have to IOD right after unless she already started earning your IOI's.

Hope this helps.