Need help re-framing

[Guest]

What up my ninjas,
It's your friendly neighborhood Spider-Ram here seeking out a little bit of advice from you fine gentlemen. Last weekend While in wal-mart (of all places) buying some boxes for packing and moving I noticed this really hott brunette in the make-up isle. Knowing that i didn't have anything that great to say right at that second, I forced myself to go over and open. I asked her if she could help me pick out some concealer(no really... don't hate). The point is that shortly after I opened I started getting serious ioi's. We ended up talking right there in the make-up isle for 30-45 min and even walked around the store and helped eachother shop a little. In my opinion I was pretty money in this interaction. i built attraction, rooted myself in her near future, etc. She had just dropped her phone abroke the screen on it righ before going to walmart so even though she put her number in my phone she said to email her or hit her up on face book(she also sent herself a friend request from my phone) if I wanted to hang out that night. To my surprise by the time I had got home she not only had gotten on fb and accepted the request, she had already posted on my page asking me what I was up to that night. Sweet! So inform her what my plan is and say that we should meet up... Nothing. I think to myself no biggie, she probably wanted to hang but her phone is all jacked up and she probably didn't have somewhere to email from when she went out that night. I didn't read that much into it and things still seemed somewhat promising. A few days later I text her just to say hi and make sure she had gotten my #. She immediately calls me and again the interaction is solid. She tells me she's meeting some friends at hooters for dinner but tells me to text her if I want to get out and grab a drink later. I text her and nothing. a day or 2 goes by and she hits me up on fb asking if i want to go out for drinks that night. I respond and losely set something up with her. I texted her later and.... no response. This time she made the effort to say she laid down to take a nap but overslept. Which I guess meant she realy did want to hang out. Last night while hanging out with another girl I am gaming she text me and ask i'm going out. I respond maybe what are you up to? to no response once again.
In my opinion if you really want to hang out with someon you WILL, no matter what. Judging from our interactions, and the fact she initiated 3 out of the 4 attempts the interest is there. My question is this... Why initiate and then flake? I think I generated enough attraction, but maybe not. Is it just one of those weird situations or did I just make myself too available by being down everytime she hit me up? Either way I would really like some advice on how to play this. I want to pursue this but I really don't want seem desperate for her attention. I feel really money when i get face time with her... Just can't seem to make it happen.

Any Suggestions...

[Guest]

Yes, you made yourself a little too available. Once or twice fine but those 3rd and 4th times...

Here is my guess:

This girl is a party girl. She has many suitors. She texts many people at the same time seeing what is going on. She waits for responses and chooses the best one. So when she was sending you those texts she was actually mass texting many people at once.

I would ignore a few or her texts as they aren't sent to you directly anyways. Then when you feel like it text her on your own accord and see about setting plans. This one is gonna probably be tricky since she has so many available options.

The good news is if you get her out you will probably hit it. Assuming you can escalate of course.

[Guest]

Yeah party girl is right......this sounds like half the girls I've met in StripperVille. No wait, about 85%. lol. Seems like she uses emotion to guide her reasoning and as a result reactives swiftly. Play on those emotions! And don't beat around the bush......she'll be onto satisfying some other emotion by then. Agree with PC, if you can go out with her you'll be tapping that.

She's so stripper like. Does she have a stripper license plate above her ass cheeks?? You better run that number first! :)

[Guest]

I partially agree and think that she is probably a party girl that jumps at the best option. This probably works in my favor since I almost always have something to go to or do. There has to be more to it then hitting her up at the right time with the "best party option" on a given night though.