Opended by a woman or am I delusional?

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Opended by a woman or am I delusional?

Postby release » Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:53 pm

So I went to a mall yesterday and I'm finding it difficult to tell whether these two women opended me, or whether I'm reading way more into it.

Case 1:

I was sitting in a chair beside a table of sunglasses, when this woman walks out of the fitting room and hold eye contact with me for around 2-3 seconds. After a minute, her boyfriend leaves and she walks over to the table to try on some sunglasses. She's trying them on right in front of me, because the mirror is right beside my chair. So I get up because I felt uncomfotable, and because she could get a better view. She says "oh i'm sorry for making you get up", and my AFC response "it's ok. no problem."

** I should have used cocky funny...something like "yeah you should be sorry. my ass was super comfortable (the chair was one of those bowl-chairs...seriously...my ass was in heaven). Next time, I'm gonna charge you $5!"....or maybe when she was intially looking "hey not so close to me, I'm not that easy you know" right? **

Then she goes back to her boyfriend....then later on she comes back to try on a few more pairs and knocks over a couple, and she says "omg look at this mess", and then I say "yeah and it's totally your fault. Shame on you"

She giggles and jokingly says "shhh don't tell anyone!"....and then i return to my AFC ways by remaining silent.

Case 2:

This lady comes up to me and asks "are any of these women's polos?". Then I said "I think these ones are, because no guy would be caught dead wearing that"....then she let out a huge laugh.....then I reverted back to my AFC ways and said nothing and returned to looking my polos

So help me out. I feel like that I was reading far too much into this, so I would appreciate your opinions. Plus, I look like Gandhi so I have some major doubts that a chick (both of which were 8 and 8.5 in my opinion) would open me like that.

Thanks!
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Postby Vector » Mon Jun 04, 2007 8:21 pm

Look at it this way: they may or may not have been attracted to you, but they talked to you, and they would have been okay with you talking to them. Talking to them is your opportunity to demonstrate your non-physical attractiveness which is what women really care about anyway.

Did they think you were good-looking? Were they attempting to start a conversation with you? From what you described, my guess is probably not. But that's not really relevant. Talk a little about sunglasses or polo shirts (C&F if that suits your style, or just chat) and transition into something else and poof you're in a conversation.

So yes, as far as you should be concerned, you were opened.
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Postby release » Tue Jun 05, 2007 10:12 am

Gotcha. Thanks!
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