Question from a virgin

[Guest]

If i am talking to a chick and the conversation starts to get sexual and i mention that i am a virgin does it dlv me?

If so does it make it any less of a dlv if i say something along the lines of "I just haven't found a girl that's good enough yet" or should i just flat out lie. Or is this whole topic irrelevant to success with women?

[Guest]

18 to 21 year olds may view you as a conquest to be had.

I wouldn't mention the whole "find the right one" mumbo jumbo.

Most girls prolly won't believe you because I think alot of guys use that. You're better off sticking to girls your age group when using the "virgin" line.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Finesse;32940]18 to 21 year olds may view you as a conquest to be had.

I wouldn't mention the whole "find the right one" mumbo jumbo.

Most girls prolly won't believe you because I think alot of guys use that. You're better off sticking to girls your age group when using the "virgin" line.[/QUOTE]



Lol. Trust me, I am not looking to go any older.

A conquest to be had? I like the sound of that :cool:

[Guest]

Holy fuck UL! This explains a lot about you and the questions you ask. I often wondered if you still had your V card. Granted, there's nothing wrong with it, but I was leaning that way. Now, it's confirmed.

Dude, you just need to get yourself laid. IMO I wouldn't 'hold out' for the 'right one.' You're probably going to be disappointed with sex anyway. Fact is that if you just get yourself laid and you stop putting the pussy on a pedestal you will make mad, crazy advancements in your Game.

Most people will tell you that their first time sucked...it's never what people think it will be. I, on the other hand, had an amazing first time...but, only because the chick I fucked was 6 years my senior and had some idea of what she was doing. (I realize now that she was a novice in many, many ways. But, still capable and confident)

Anyway, find some moderately attractive chick that's wants to fuck you and just get the deed done...I'm sure some will disagree with me but if you want to grow in your Game you have to know what it is that you're really working for and how of little importance it is in your life...even if it can be pretty fucking awesome (but, 9 times out of 10 the chick doesn't know what she's doing anyway).

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32938]If i am talking to a chick and the conversation starts to get sexual and i mention that i am a virgin does it dlv me?

If so does it make it any less of a dlv if i say something along the lines of "I just haven't found a girl that's good enough yet" or should i just flat out lie. Or is this whole topic irrelevant to success with women?[/QUOTE]

Since you are young I would say it doesn't DLV you. And if it does only slightly. Let a few years pass and this will change.

I agree with BR you should just try to get it over with. It probably influences you to some degree that you are a V.

In the future though I probably wouldn't even mention it.

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Urban Legend;32941]
When its time to fuck, attack her pussy like you're storming Normandy! [/QUOTE]

I think you should change your sig too. lol I'm not sure you could handle thoroughly fucking.

More like.

"When it's time to fuck, lay down on the bed, pull her on top, and hope she knows what she's doing." :p

[Guest]

[QUOTE=Finesse;32953]I think you should change your sig too. lol I'm not sure you could handle thoroughly fucking.

More like.

"When it's time to fuck, lay down on the bed, pull her on top, and hope she knows what she's doing." :p[/QUOTE]



Not very congruent was it? :rolleyes:

[Guest]

We all know you can get away with saying just about anything if you frame it right.

However, I'm not really sure why this topic would even come up between you and her? Why does she need to know that? For all she knows you're just a lousy lay (and you will be your first time...so just go ahead and make peace with that). You just pretend like you know what you're doing...she'll pretend like she likes what you're doing...and next thing you know you're past the whole V-card precedent.
The point is to come to the whole "yea that really wasn't all I built it up to be" conclusion on your own.

Just like many have already said and agreed to, you need to drop the 'find the special one' thing and just get 'the first time' over with. Sex is pretty awesome, but if you build it up to be bigger than it really is then you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

I know that might be disappointing advice...but I bet your insecurities about it all will fade pretty quickly if you just do it.

[Guest]

since it is your first time, it probalby wont be amazing for the girl, but there are things you can do that will make her think its not your first time..

some books i suggest:

1. she come's first by ian kerner - this is a great book for oral basics on a woman

2. the joy of sex by alex comfot - different writing style and not exactly a manual like the one aforementioned, but still lots of valuable info

and there are countless articles online

heres another great site:

[URL="http://www.sexinfo101.com"]www.sexinfo101.com[/URL]

good luck!