How much does looks count

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This topic has been debated for a decade. Search mASF or here for just about everything that has ever been said on the topic.

someone please PM me if some earth shattering perspective not ever uncovered before comes up. :)

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Should there be a line drawn on how hard you try to be cocky funny or whatever your thing may be?

For example, Lets say a so-so (lets say a 5 or 6) looking guy walks up to an 8. He becomes cocky funny (or whatever) and she thinks “aww, well he is trying, let’s throw him a bone” or basically he’s not that great looking, but he is here. HE HAS THE BALLS BABY!

Now a guy pulls up to another girl, still an 8 or 7 kind of girl, but now this guy is probably a 7 or 8. Now he is cocky funny or uses his style but the girl is thinking “why is he trying so damn hard? Is something wrong with him?”

My friend was saying that we all should model ourselves after a guru that matches our confidence. Like if you’re not that great looking but you want to improve so much, Style would be a good person to model after. If, once again, you are not that great looking but you seem to be straight forward and daring, mystery would be a good choice. I am not saying to become just like your guru but look up to them because they are the closest to your style and has a lot of the same difficulties that you do. Haha I guess it’s like doing a personality survey then figuring out who you are the most like. I feel like I am a lot like matador. Synnr thinks so too

This is just my own suggestion to my own question but I don’t think that is good enough. I would like for more help. I don’t have the chance to go out a lot because I am 18. Economy is low and money is tight. I guess the mall would be a great place to go but I don’t want to be a mall rat that women fear because if they are in the line of sight… CHARGE ANGEL CHARGE!!!!! I could just be self-conscious.

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angel, i like your idea of mimicing the style of the guru your personality matches, but i think it would be best if you were try out multiple styles and see what works best for you. what may work for matador wont work with you, even though your personalities are similar.

"make no style, your style" from the great, Bruce Lee

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yeah your right.

thanks man!

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no girl is out of my league. i just keep that mindset in me at all times.

if you are fun and have this great personality, why shouldn't you get a hb9 or 10 if you are a 6?
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Absolutely.

Being good-looking is actually a handicap in some ways, especially at bars. I have a best friend who is wheelchair-bound. That guy pulls more ass than you could possibly believe. Why? Girls believe he will stay with them, or that's my theory anyway. A better looking guy will come across as a player if he isn't careful, especailly at a bar. He'll have to do more work at making the girl understand that she really is special enough for him (qualify).

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I believe that with some good grooming, a decent hair cut, and some clothes that don't make you look like Steve Urkel, any guy can look good enough to have any woman he so desires.
Even in extreme cases, as long as you take care of yourself, you still have a good chance.
[link=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2whOqfcrBUE]Check out this link.[/link]
That guy is ugly as shit but still gets lots of ass.
He even speaks for David D at some of his seminars.

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yea look at APB too, not a good looking guy, but hes traveling the world teaching ABC of pickup and pulling ass...

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true. Being unattractive has its downside. But an ugly guy can be compleatly wild... Pretty girls will give him the chance to talk.

what does the good looking guy do? If he is too wild, he is trying to hard. If he tones it down, he could just blend into the background. That medium is hard to find