By george i think he's got it!

[Finesse]

I just had an extremely big "AH HA" Moment.

I just realized that A problem I have is getting stuck in the "becoming interesting" mode, and that, that is what most of the times doesnt work.....
why did it take so long to figure out?

yhesh..

What were some of ya'lls "AH HA" Moments?

[Sage]

What were some of ya'lls "AH HA" Moments?

Biggest one was when I realized that my penis was good for more than just peeing while standing up...

[Tribulus1000]

My biggest Aha Moment would have to be actually seeing Open Sets and Attraction Spikes. This takes time in-field and sensory acuity.
I did some meditation and NLP to see these.

Think of how you "just know" when a homeless person is about to ask you for money. That same skill and mental strategy can be used for seeing IOIs (aka Attraction Spikes) and "open sets".

When I say "open sets" I mean girls more likely to give you a positive response. This comes mostly from seeing their body language and where their attention is focussed.

[Sage]

my actual biggest AHHA moment was when I realized that women really will sleep with me fairly easily and the reason I wasnt getting them to was that I was assuming they needed lots of work before they would.

In essense, it was when I realized that most women are sluts and started acting accordingly...