Killer Instinct and clsoing....

[Guest]

..so i have been reflecting on my experience in the game and i am quite disappointed with myself. for those who have met me, i think youll agree that i have much potential to be a great pua. i am good looking, have style, am a man of value, understand the basic theories of the game and posses the necessary social skills to be extremely sucessful...yet i have not been.

ive watched many of the guys in the game and have observed the guys who consistently close and ive noticed that they posess one major quality that makes them sucessful; they have the KILLER INSTINCT! they see an opportunity and they close. end of story.

in my reflection, i have been in quite a few sets that i could've number closed, but did not. for whatever reason, i didnt jump on the opportunity. some of it is inner game, some of it is not. my question to the community is...are you born with this killer instict? or is it something that can be learned? if you can learn it, what are some advice you can give me to help me become more sucessful in closing?

[Guest]

its learned from habit. i did not start off having 3somes or kissing 5 girls per night or else i wouldnt be community. U snowball it till it becomes an avalanche.

[Guest]

prodigy, I feel like I have the same problem. I don't know about you, but I have a lot of self doubt, I feel like if I escalate it will be awkward. Like I'm not good enough for the target or something. I have had some success, but if my inner game was good and I had some half way descent size balls, I would be unstoppable. hopefully someday I will get to this point.

[Guest]

Killer Instinct?

Hrmm that is a good question.

I don't think that is how I would describe it.

I think when you want something bad enough you go after it. You do whatever it takes to achieve success. For me I was closing girls because if I didn't I would dwell on the ex. I had fresh wounds from my break up when I got into the game. I used women as a way to heal those wounds. Probably not the best way to mend them but it was the only way I could think of. And it worked.

I think you need to sit back and reflect on just why you are here. Once you find your answer I think you will find your success.

You need to find the peak of attraction in your sets and number close at that point. I think a lot of guys don't realize where this is and let it go too long. Then things fizzle and you either number close at the wrong time or not at all.

Another thing I want to say is "Success Breeds Success". Like what Solace said things will start to avalanche. You have to start somewhere and move up from there.

[Guest]

When I first started, I had that killer instinct. I was going to close. Period. I wasn't scared, I was hungry.

Over time I got much more selective and would only close if I really wanted to close.

So, I think it goes both ways. Some guys come in and learn to close because they love the thrill. Others come in and become more selective with who and what they close.

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standards are inversely related to the amount of alcohol consumed
/pointless obvious observation post