Sarging for friends

[Guest]

How would you go about sarging to just make friends? I want to build my social circle up more. Think about it, it would probably be more beneficial to make friends with some attractive girls, then they have a ton of friends that you could game, and it would be a warm approach situation. But how do you get to this point? When you number close a girl, she is going to think you just want to "date" her. And how would you become closer friends, not just acquaintances? Close enough to invite you to house parties and just hang out on a regular basis.

[Guest]

the simple trick to this one is...and it will probably offend your sense of masculinity. Come across gay. think mehow.

-Rockstar

[Guest]

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the simple trick to this one is...and it will probably offend your sense of masculinity. Come across gay. think mehow.

-Rockstar
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Yeah, I can see how this would be effective. To take it a step further, I would simply approach them with a certain level of asexuality, i.e. you don't want women, you don't want men. Saying your gay definitely won't be enough, I use that line all of the time and it totally works to build comfort, intrigue, and attraction. The way to play it is to act slightly efeminite and don't ever 'hit' on them, i.e very indirect without any form of escalation.

[Guest]

much more eloquently put then me. That is exactly what I mean act gay, with out ever dropping the "gay-bomb"

[Guest]

I wish I knew brother.

I have always wanted a girl who was just a friend. I end up fucking them though.

I have been able to turn some of the girls I have nailed into friends though. But it is tricky since they still want my nuts. And I would give it to them but I somehow don't let the opportunity arise.

So maybe the trick is to build "some" attraction. Enough that they are interested but not convinced. Then when you are building rapport(Phone Conversations, text, going out to the mall) talk in a way and act in a way that they are your little sister or something. You have to somehow go about it so they aren't super attracted to you. If they become super attracted to you they aren't going to want to hook you up with any of their friends. In fact they will be jealous.

You almost want to be LJBFed but just one degree less. This way you can always have a shot with this girl as well down the road.

This is definitely tricky and something I have never delved in. It always sparked my interest but clearly nailing the girl was always more interesting.

Good Luck