how to keep conversatiog going and avoiding stale sets.

[Guest]

Hey guys whats going on? Normally I do not like telling people how to game but this is one issue that I have struggled myself for up to 6 months and I see countless other guys get stuck struggling with this issue too.Now I realize that different things work for different people but hear me out, may be it will clear things up.

THE ISSUE: running out of things to say. We all have been there: we approch and open and everything is going good and then you run out of shit to say. Game over.

3 ways to get over it:

1) When you run out of shit to say...stop talking and get out. Most guys run out of shit to say and they are like "man i got blown out of that set". WRONG.WRONG.WRONG. When you run out of stuff to say just do what any normal person would do...LEAVE...but come back later and talk to the group(or your target) as if you are old friends. This alone will raise your value and will make thing less awkward.

2) Let her invest in you.What is valuable? Something is valuable when people invest time,money,emotion and energy into it. So LET her do some of the talking. Let her entertain you. Let her invest her time and emotion into you.Let her talk to you too.

3) Physicality. Guys, touch is CRUCIAL...CRUCIAL to your game. Everybody is so freaking out on the shit to say that nobody remmembers to lead the interaction PHYSICALLY. You can have the most awesome conversation with a girl ever, but if you are not getting physical with her you aint fucking her that night.

This kind of phylosophy helps me out a lot.Makes social dynamics feelThats it for now.

[Guest]

Talking about the benefits of getting physical, I've recently learned that "dancing" with a girl is a very valuable tool. Typically after I've built some comfort and the conversation kind of reaches a lull, I'll suggest we hit the dance floor. Girls love to dance so they never say no. The benefits from dancing are huge, its like "foreplay" and its very socially acceptable.

[Guest]

True howie... dancing guys are often perceived as more alpha as well