fuckbuddy threesome - advice?

[Guest]

so my new FB and I talked about sexual fantasies this weekend and she said one of her big ones was having a threesome with another female. Apparently a big enough one that she had already tried to get a previous FB to have one and went as far as finding someone on craigslist to do it with and setting it up but then the faggit (excuse my french) chickened out.

So now that we are officially FBs... any advice as to how to proceed to make that happen? I am thinking of just saying next time we get together let's make some fantasies happen. At the same time I don't want to appear TOO overeager. I'm also worried about the expiration date on this thing and thinking if I wait too long to make this happen I'll miss out on the opportunity.

What would you guys do in my position? Would you try to make it happen ASAP or try and build to it? We have only had sex a few times this past weekend... so I'm not really sure what the etiquette is on that ;) I don't want to blow the FB situation by pushing too far too fast - at the same time she could get with some other dude at any point and break off the FB situation.

Suggestions?

[Guest]

anyone? *listens to the sound of the crickets*

[Guest]

we all know its the anticipation that is the best part. There was a study performed on couples having sex and all of the dopamine release was before the orgasm. This means build her up, make her want it bad. I.e. while you are having sex say stuff like wouldn't it feel so nice to have a girl licking you up and down while I'm inside you, moving slowly from your neck to your chest, moving back up and nibbling on your ear a bit, then kissing your stomach softly..

you get the point just put this image in her mind of how amazing it would feel to have that third girl there then you guys can agree together and go get one.

btw, threesomes are not all they are cracked up to be, but I think every man should have one in his life just for the experience.

[Guest]

My one threesome was awkward and uncomfortable. It was long ago, lots of alcohol was involved, and everyone kept getting pissy because two would focus on each other and kinda leave one out...honestly, I would start with baby steps to the 3some. Find a chick that she's in to...and watch them together...move from there. Make it more like they are putting on a show for you...not you being creepy and wanting to masturbate violently to others as they do it.

[Guest]

[quote1226516785=Smirks]Find a chick that she's in to...and watch them together...move from there. Make it more like they are putting on a show for you...not you being creepy and wanting to masturbate violently to others as they do it.[/quote1226516785]


Agreed. Every threesome I've ever had was pretty much set up by the girls, I just made sure to create the right environment. And, of course, to be there to actually see (and hopefully film) it.

[Guest]

LOL BR

She brought the whole threesome thing up originally, so I don't think it's going to take much convincing... I just wanna make sure I don't blow it ;) I'm more interested in as much just because I never have and it's something I'd like to be involved in once so don't wanna miss the chance. I'm sure she'd definitely be the one doing most of the arranging as far as finding the other person and I'd end up handling a lot of the other logistics.

OK, so masturbating violently while watching... out! ;)

[Guest]

I have actually setup all the threesomes I have had, they never seem to happen the way other people talk about them for me. I test the waters for it when there are two women around. I usually make the statement of, you too are a lil close, are you sure your not lovers...Every women has a little lesbian in them, i can understand why, i mean look at the female body its so beautiful. I can tell when women are lesbian or not, go ahead kiss and ill let you know. Then they kiss and ill pick one and make a cold read, man she really liked that, a lil too much, she was fantasizing, look shes turning red, you shoulda seen the look in her eyes afterwards. escalate escalate escalate and threesome.

[Guest]

BTW Credit to my college roommate on this, after "sleeping" through two threesomes that happen on the couch next to my room with the door wide open and the exact same monologue twice, i knew it was doable.

[Guest]

[quote1226592699=JJE]She brought the whole threesome thing up originally, so I don't think it's going to take much convincing...[/quote1226592699]


You're missing the point, it shouldn't take ANY convincing...

[Guest]

Don't know if it will or won't... haven't brought it up since that night -- we'll see what happens