What's been going on with me lately..

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Sleek, those questions aren't good to ask yourself.
I fear that when you start asking yourself all those questions to see if you are up to her standard; it would work against you. It could give you an anxiety. You should start telling yourself there isn't such thing as "girls who are higher quality(better) than me, bud." When you start thinking those pretty faces as 'higher class' than you, you are going to play/game with 'lower class' girls. You may get more options, however, you won't be satisfied with the quality of girls you get.

My point: it is ok to rate a girl for their physical/mental attractives and etc. Do not rate yourself because you won't approach girls you think who are rated higher than you.

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I am all for positive thinking.

There is a big difference between telling yourself you can become the most awesome man on the planet, vs. telling yourself you already are. One way motivates you to improve, and the other kills that motivation.

I think it's [i]good[/i] to believe that you're the baddest motherfucker on the planet, in some contexts. But if it stops you from realistically assessing what good qualities you have and what needs improvement, then it's hurting you.

I think you, Sleek, can become the kind of guy that can get any girl, including playboy bunnies, or famous actresses, or rich hot intellectuals, or whatever you want. Don't stop working on what it takes to get there. And don't stop trying for the girls you want in the meantime.

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hey thanks vector.
we all need to work hard then will improve together.

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I still don't see women as any worse than guys... so either you can hate everyone or accept everyone's human and hate no one. Or at least reserve the hate for those especially deserving ;)
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I don't know, woman act a lot different than guys. Women give you shit tests, play games with you, pawn guys for social value, lead you on. I think these traits are a lot more prevalent in women than men.

Recently I tried to hang out with this girl, she gave excuses why she couldn't. So I dropped it. After the freeze out, she wants to hang out, so I give it another chance. Guess what? She flakes about 3 hrs prior to meeting up. It went in a cycle, I wanted to hang out, I drop it, then she does, then excuse. It went through this cycle like twice. I finally just realized she is just a validation seeking little bitch. And I am sure this is a prevalent issue among the more attractive and young girls.

I think this article in the cross posted section makes a good point - [link=http://www.dallaslair.org/p/forum/forum_viewtopic.php?3018]The Truth About Women[/link]

But, Like it says in that article, can you get mad at a dog for eating steak? Its just in its nature.

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> I don't know, woman act a lot different than guys. Women
> give you shit tests, play games with you, pawn guys for
> social value, lead you on. I think these traits are a lot more > prevalent in women than men.

They do that cause they can "afford" to do that. (cause they have a lot more options). People do what they can get away with. I think its says a lot more about human nature than about women.

Applying a positive mindset about women will do a lot more to your game than assuming a negative one. So why make it more difficult.

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Hey thx pp
I guess what you're tryin to get at is that I need to stay positive even when things seem hopeless (neagtive).