Attraction fizzles! But why?

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She wanted to fuck you(can I say that?) but it had to be your fault. Now she thinks you want a relationship and she's not down with it.

Chicks are strange, they'll fuck you in the bathroom of a Denny's...
as long as you're the slut, and she's the little angel that just tripped and fell on your penis.

-R

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She was UNBELIEVABLY into me, texting me every few hours, calling, etc... I was undeniably the "prize" or whatever. I played it cool, calling/txting back here and there. I was honestly too busy to really pursue it hard.
So I finally meet up with her a bit more than a week later. She remains extremely attracted. We end up not eating and I k-close easily after some banter. We just end up talking and smooching a bunch in the car - yes, I hook up in style. I'm not even trying to play game, which means I'm playing great game. She's ridiculously into me and it shows.
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Sounds like you had a very good shot that night. So far so good.

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I talk about random stuff, tell her story about my first disastrous relationship
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Not a good move. Keep the relationship talk on the back burner. Let her bring that stuff up.

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Maybe not enough comfort but she was probably comfortable enough. She qualifies herself incessantly. She stole one of my rings and said I could get it back later, and I left an unfinished origami piece that I told her I would finish later. She was dying to find out what it was (it's actually a rose that my first girlfriend taught me how to make). So basically it went really well - she asks me to call her soon to hang out more.
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Sounds good so far. Keep seeing her.

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And she says she hadn't had sex in 1.5 years. Yeah right she's obviously a player.
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That was probably the hint that you should fuck her that night. You missed it.

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I was very busy after this day2, plus I didn't want to get into the relationship frame.
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You already brought up the relationship frame by telling her she was a disaterous relationship.