I just realized...

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Vector, my hatred isn't driven from lack of attentions... My hatred was born when I found out the truth about women. For nearly 22 years, I had thought that girls were faithful and filled their image with any positive things I could imagine... Maybe it's because I didn't know women too well. WHen I learned more about 'em, I couldn't help but to hate them. Moreover, I felt like I was betrayed. I don't feel betrayed anymore, but that doesn't mean I forgive them.

Bullrun, I remember one of your post about PUA cycle. There is one of the stage that PUAs go through in the cycle. It's when they find out the truth about women, you can't forgive them. Since it's just a cycle, I am sure I will not be like this for long. Even Solace and you said yourselves, that you went through this stage. But until then, my opinion of girls are negative and hatred is what drives me to work hard in pick up to "kick girls' asses." Or at least... that's how a girl, who got me into pick up, would phrase it. Bullrun, you call it "conquest." :)

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[quote1224862481=Sleek]Bullrun, I remember one of your post about PUA cycle. There is one of the stage that PUAs go through in the cycle. It's when they find out the truth about women, you can't forgive them. Since it's just a cycle, I am sure I will not be like this for long. Even Solace and you said yourselves, that you went through this stage. But until then, my opinion of girls are negative and hatred is what drives me to work hard in pick up to "kick girls' asses." Or at least... that's how a girl, who got me into pick up, would phrase it. Bullrun, you call it "conquest." :)[/quote1224862481]


You're right, it is a phase. The only question is how long you spend in this phase. I would encourage you to try to workout what you need to workout as soon as possible. I've seen many guys that get caught in this stage and never leave. Imagine HATING women for the rest of your life. Doesn't sound like a lot of fun right?

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Vector, my hatred isn't driven from lack of attentions... My hatred was born when I found out the truth about women. For nearly 22 years, I had thought that girls were faithful and filled their image with any positive things I could imagine... Maybe it's because I didn't know women too well. WHen I learned more about 'em, I couldn't help but to hate them. Moreover, I felt like I was betrayed. I don't feel betrayed anymore, but that doesn't mean I forgive them.

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Hrmm...I never went through this phase. I think the problem is you are grouping ALL women. If you start to come across some higher quality girls I think you will see that they are not all created equal. And even after saying that A LOT of girls go through phases as well. Yeah that sweet little innocent girl turns into a whore. She sleeps around with a bunch of guys over a month or three. She then wakes up and realizes what she was doing was stupid and straightens up.

A ton of girls cheat. I have known some very nice girls who cheated on their boyfriends. It all stems from certain things though. Girls usually cheat because something is lacking in their relationship and it usually isn't sex. It is usually some feeling of connection they are lacking with their current BF.

When you get into game you learn some of the evils women do. You see it first hand. You get some success land a bunch of numbers and realize how flaky girls are. This is highly annoying. However you need to just realize it is part of the process and part of the game. Just delete the numbers and move on. I can't tell you how to feel about women. It sucks that you are in a stage right now that you don't find women pleasant. I feel sorry for you that you are going through that. I highly recommend that you get out there and see some more success though. Like Bull Run said this is a stage you want to spend as little time as possible in. Last thing you want is to hate women all your life. That would blow goats.

Good Luck

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[quote=Sleek]Moreover, I felt like I was betrayed. I don't feel betrayed anymore, but that doesn't mean I forgive them.[/quote]
If you're going to hate someone, hate the ones that propagate the myth in the first place. They are the ones that "betrayed" you, not women.

So there's no such thing as Santa Claus. Understanding that is part of growing up. We all go through it. Just try to get past your bitterness because it's definitely not a good thing.

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Thats some good stuff you laid out PC.

Chics say the same things about us!