need tactics to avoid LJBF zone

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[quote1223236274=Gunner22]
ok guys...i think im getting close to ljbfs zone with the one girl at my school...shes a HB9 so shes pretty damn pretty! lol anyways, shes in non of my classes..i met her on facebook actually when a 'mutual friend' invite me to a group she was in and we started talking online alot and still are...she always asked me to come to the math lab to say hi and what not, but that is somthing i wanna stop doing cause i can literally feel my value dropping when im in the math lab not doing math when she is...making me look quite choadish...she has an ex boyfriend that keeps bothering her and shit and i feel she is not over still not over him...i asked her for her number two times...both in a indirect and cocky/funny way but she said lets wait on that...so im not sure what she is feeling...i dont wanna seem pushy and needy like i always am...i mean i think she does feel me...all i need is some time to chill with her outside of school but i dunno if i should be patient or not...HELP ME OUT GUYS!!!!
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Most hot girls have some kind of boyfriend, ex boyfriend, orbiter, whatever. Then when they meet you, guess what? Suddenly the fucker's gone. Or you'll hear about him after you've fucked her. Or something.

A girl who is attracted to you will start to organize her life around you - it shouldn't be the other way around.

Point here is, if you're getting the run-around on a NUMBER that means she KNOWS you are interested (she would give a girlfriend her number), so I don't agree with some of these gentlemen that a SOI is the key here for you.

I'm gonna take a stab at it and guess that she's not very attracted to you. She has placed you in orbiter land. You're a dick in a glass jar, if you will.

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[quote1223236877=Rembrandt]
I know from experience that being the guy she complains about her boyfriend to doesn't lead where you want it to. Change the subject and make her laugh, don't listen to her bitch about her bf.
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Correct. Awesome Rembrandt.

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One more addition ........this has worked for me. If you find yourself in a situation where she is complaining about her bf and you can't possibly avoid it, then it'd be a good idea to take HIS side in the argument instead of agreeing with her.

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One of the keys to generating attraction is to break rapport. Read more from AFC Adam to get all of the details on how but it is effective.

I prefer serious teasing but now and then I will actually start a heated argument. Doing something like that lets a girl know that you aren't a push over and have a spine - very attractive qualities to a woman.