Sleek's confession after first experience

[Guest]

My first experience has been mostly good but had some downside to it.

the reason being:
I never felt so accepted by a girl before. It was first time to experience such emotions and feelings like that from a girl. This is giving me a bit of problem sarging now. I really didn't care much bout rejection and went sarging furiously. Since I tasted this "accepted feeling," it hurts more to be rejected by a girl. This is where problem kicks in. Now I don't approach as much as I was. I think I wrote in other forum bout PUA's confidence level fluctuates. Nothing stays in equilibrium. Everything is progressive or regressive. Your body is the same and so is your skills. If you don't work out, your body will regress. If you work out, it will progress. There is no such thing as equilibrium. I think this is what Sinn said at the lair talk. I do believe that our confidence lvl fluctuates. At least, it has for me. I am thinking maybe I'm at the period where my lvl is a little down, but I know for sure I'll kick back up!!

[Guest]

Sleek,

Quit being a pussy bro. I've been reading this from you on here for the last week, it's enough now.

Emotions are addictive man. They're chemicals in the brain like drugs. One or two days of being down is fine, but pick yourself up now.

[Guest]

The best way to combat these beliefs is through your behavior. Just force yourself to approach. Go out and don't allow yourself to leave without approaching a certain number of girls. You deserve hot girls despite what your thoughts might be telling you!

[Guest]

Grimm: haha yea my bad! I will do my best.

Sal: Hey thx man. I think I just need some time. I will def. gonna sarge this week. Do you live in dallas sal?

[Guest]

Sleek:

I heard you got shot...

Are you OK?

[Guest]

yea pistol was small so I'm OK. lol

[Guest]

No I'm in OK

[Guest]

Dammm!! noooooo
move down to texas lol.

how come u r on dallas lair then?

[Guest]

Sal you need to plan a trip to dallas damnit how many people here have been wanting to sarge w/ you?? :)

Back to the original subject of the thread sleek... you can choose to take the positive or negative things with you from things like this, but it's generally your choice of outlook. A lot of people in your position would be thinking 'I just got laid - I am so bad-ass. Women want me, etc etc'. You have to think about the things that reinforce the positive aspects of your personality rather than the negative. A lot of times that only involves realizing you are in a negative thinking pattern and choosing to change it to positive... after a while the positive thoughts bring the positive feelings and you'll get your mojo back :)

[Guest]

hey thanks justice. I will be back as a better man with lots mojo juice in my body lol! henccceee i'llllll reboooorrrn!!