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[Guest]

Got this young hottie that is about 12years younger than me I have been conversing with on a dating site.

Here's her dating profile:
I am probably the silliest person I know, I don't take much serious and if I could have it my way there wouldn't be any wars, everyone would drive electric cars and animals would be our friends not food. Sadly when I was still in grade school I realized the world we live in is a hard and unforgiving place for such silly ideas no matter how practical they may seem. So I was dealt two options: Option 1, I can conform, eat lots of hamburgers, drive a big diesel and vote for McCain. Option 2, continue to live in my happy little bubble where pots of gold at the end of rainbows exist. I know it's a naive place to live and I could careless if you disagree with me because at the end of the day I rather be the girl making you laugh so hard you pee your pants than the stupid stuck up **** who hates life.

HOWIE: Your pics and your profile definitely tell me you are comfortable with who you are and thats the kind of girl I'd like to get to know. ps. hamburgers are my favorite! lol. (<----she's anti cow killer)

HB: I understand going 160mph+ down the freeway, but at 3am? I know, your one of those crazy rebel racecar drivers who loves to impress the chicks with how loud you can rev your 450hp+ engine or how fast you can swerve around old ladies in the fast lane? lol ps, i dont eat red meat, already one point against you...

HOWIE: Ohh I see you must have that new "Analyze a Guy" software installed on your computer! It always spits out bad reports. You definitely watched too much Ricky Bobby and formed your opinion about racecar drivers! Don't believe what you see on tv. Since I have one point against me, you have 2 against you for not being open-minded. I thought I read you better than that. So can we have a decent discussion now? lol

HB: Ricky Bobby huh? I always had a thing for Will Farrel, j/k
I don't mean to judge, I was just messing with you. Thing is I grew up around racing, between having 3 older brothers for mechanics and a die hard nascar fan as a dad, I get it. Anyways, I wasn't passing judgment, well not really, just wondering if you fit that stereotype or not...
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Any suggestions on where to go next, any constructive criticism?? Do I need to bust her balls some more? lol.

Thanks.

[Guest]

no busting her balls more would be dumb. She just qualified and apologized to you. Busting her some more would just make you come off as an asshole and she wouldnt reply. There's plenty of ways you can go with it just use some humor.

Alright that means you can turbocharge my car. Damn I'm goin to have the fastest golf car on earth now. How long will the upgrade take you?

Ha I grew up with a sister who was a vegetarian. The red meat thing.. I get it. Even though I still like to offer her hamburgers randomly just to tease her. What makes you so passionate about not eating red meat?
(when she answers this reward her behavior, like say she says I just think its our place to protect the animals blah blah blah. You say wow I've never thought of it that way I love how *any behavior you like about what she said* thoughtful you are. Then ask another question maybe) What else are you passionate about?

honestly theres like 30 different ways you can go with this, but what I want to show you is that when a girl starts qualifying herself like that it's a behavior that helps you, don't punish her by teasing her for it, reward her. Pickup is all about good behavior-reward, bad behavior punish The goal is to lead to her to doing just the things you like and that's where the social savvy you must have comes in.

[Guest]

I think zine had some good advice. I know in the past (and sometimes in the present) I have gone too far with the joking around and the ball busting without realizing that the girl is already interested in getting to know me more.

Anyway, it sounds like you were doing well with her so I am interested in how it turned out. She seems really cool based on her profile.